World's Strictest Parents - or worst parents...
July 28th 2010 10:32
Easy for me to say... I'm not a parent.
And therein is the problem.
Who am I to make comment about parenting skills when I have no kids.
Thing is, here is the biggest attitude I have about the whole thing:
Parents CHOOSE to be parents.
Women have babies like it is a right...
I CHOSE NOT to be a parent - because without doubt I knew I lacked parenting skills (I had a shitty troubled upbringing, being abused, exposed to violence and all sorts of challenges - so it was pretty obvious to me from the start that I had no idea how to manage kids... even though I was always excellent with other people's kids).
That's the thing... parents are not automatically created.
Parents are people who are knowingly engage in unprotected sexual activity - with the intention of creating a baby.
People seem to make some kind of stupid error in how they perceive their actions: You don't just get pregnant and make a baby.
You engage in a LIFETIME CHOICE TO RAISE A HUMAN PERSON.
Just because they start out all baby-cute and little - as if this is a miraculous creation - doesn't mean there is no long term massive responsibility.
You don't start a business without research, education, understanding, and testing and commiting to results.
Yet, people engage in the most naive and ignorant behavior because they aspire to be parents.
Do they?
Not often - they mostly want to "have a baby".
Having a baby is clearly different to becoming a responsible, long term caring and educated parent.
It is only ONE part of the entire chain of commitment.
Having a baby really means being a human teacher.
The current generation - those under 30 - and especially those under 24 - are the most arrogant, immature, irresponsible, selfish, self-serving and self-centred humans on the planet...
OKAY, not all of them.
But a VAST majority of them are crap-heads.
I would be ashamed of myself if I allowed my child to display agro, feral bad tempered behavior.
I do feel sorry for parents who have children with disabilities of what ever nature that lead the child to display challenging behaviors.
What I don't appreciate is people who have babies and then expect the rest of the world to feel sorry for them when they didn't raise them with discipline.
Why are there so many hoons out there now?
Because people of my generation made choices to have babies they had no idea how to raise, and never disciplined them because they were never aware of what discipline was in their own families.
Bring on Strictest Parents Bootcamps.
Bring on Bootcamps for teaching parents how to be parents.
What is the point of sending bratty spoilt kids off to live with strict parents, for a week, only to send them back home to crappy family environments?
I had no interest in having kids.
I would look after kids because now I am older, I am bloody good with kids.
Discipline comes naturally to me.
And kids need TOUGH love and real discipline.
Think twice before you get pregnant, have a baby or become a parent,
And therein is the problem.
Who am I to make comment about parenting skills when I have no kids.
Thing is, here is the biggest attitude I have about the whole thing:
Parents CHOOSE to be parents.
Women have babies like it is a right...
I CHOSE NOT to be a parent - because without doubt I knew I lacked parenting skills (I had a shitty troubled upbringing, being abused, exposed to violence and all sorts of challenges - so it was pretty obvious to me from the start that I had no idea how to manage kids... even though I was always excellent with other people's kids).
That's the thing... parents are not automatically created.
Parents are people who are knowingly engage in unprotected sexual activity - with the intention of creating a baby.
People seem to make some kind of stupid error in how they perceive their actions: You don't just get pregnant and make a baby.
You engage in a LIFETIME CHOICE TO RAISE A HUMAN PERSON.
Just because they start out all baby-cute and little - as if this is a miraculous creation - doesn't mean there is no long term massive responsibility.
You don't start a business without research, education, understanding, and testing and commiting to results.
Yet, people engage in the most naive and ignorant behavior because they aspire to be parents.
Do they?
Not often - they mostly want to "have a baby".
Having a baby is clearly different to becoming a responsible, long term caring and educated parent.
It is only ONE part of the entire chain of commitment.
Having a baby really means being a human teacher.
The current generation - those under 30 - and especially those under 24 - are the most arrogant, immature, irresponsible, selfish, self-serving and self-centred humans on the planet...
OKAY, not all of them.
But a VAST majority of them are crap-heads.
I would be ashamed of myself if I allowed my child to display agro, feral bad tempered behavior.
I do feel sorry for parents who have children with disabilities of what ever nature that lead the child to display challenging behaviors.
What I don't appreciate is people who have babies and then expect the rest of the world to feel sorry for them when they didn't raise them with discipline.
Why are there so many hoons out there now?
Because people of my generation made choices to have babies they had no idea how to raise, and never disciplined them because they were never aware of what discipline was in their own families.
Bring on Strictest Parents Bootcamps.
Bring on Bootcamps for teaching parents how to be parents.
What is the point of sending bratty spoilt kids off to live with strict parents, for a week, only to send them back home to crappy family environments?
I had no interest in having kids.
I would look after kids because now I am older, I am bloody good with kids.
Discipline comes naturally to me.
And kids need TOUGH love and real discipline.
Think twice before you get pregnant, have a baby or become a parent,
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