SchublerWhy Love???
About this subject I think everyone has a different opinion...
But how is the personal development of a person influenced by this feeling... don`t get me wrong... it`s ok to Love someone... It`s really a great feeling and I hope all of you had or will have the chance to live it!!! This is a post about what Love really is and how it is explained psychologically!!!
The weird part about Love is this: If we love someone... only one person it is seen like something normal... but if we were to love more persons at the same time this wouldn`t be seen as normal behaviour!!!
Psychologists that commented on Love says that when someone loves nature or animals would seem weird to us, if that person would love only one tree or one animal... Psychologically this would be considered an obsession... but not in what concern love and people, this isn`t seen as an obssesion... of course this being the case where two people feel something for each other and not the case when only one person says it cares for someone...
Love defines only the feelings that come from two persons... If only one person feels something and the other doesn`t, this isn`t Love anymore and can`t be called Love, this can lead to obsessive behaviour... And I know the majority of you have encountered this!!! And also many of you felt depresed and hurt because of this... this is normal but it`s not something you should let grow inside you... it`s not healthy and it can lead to bigger psychological problems and even disease!!
And we come to the real issue behind this post: Jealousy
This is a feeling that, globally, is positioned in second place after wars in what concerns deaths!!!
Did you ever think in detail about how jealousy is produced???
You have to know that animals don`t have this feeling of jealousy... and also in what concern people it apears only in certain conditions and in certain social groups. Civilizations that don`t know the meaning of private property don`t know jealousy... this is a fact!!!
So, we could say that jealousy is something that comes from our possessive behaviour!!! Jealousy is probably one of the top causes that end relationships and this is why we have to learn to love ourselves first with all our hearts... and not let our feelings of low self confidance ruin the relationships with the one`s we like or love... One of the biggest problems for jealousy is Low self confidance!!!
So please do everything possible to stay positive, to grow as a human being, to learn to know yourself, to learn how to love yourself and then give love... and you will have a stronger chance to feel happy close to the one you love!!! This only comes from Personal Development!!!
Wish you the best!!! Have Fun!!!
But how is the personal development of a person influenced by this feeling... don`t get me wrong... it`s ok to Love someone... It`s really a great feeling and I hope all of you had or will have the chance to live it!!! This is a post about what Love really is and how it is explained psychologically!!!
The weird part about Love is this: If we love someone... only one person it is seen like something normal... but if we were to love more persons at the same time this wouldn`t be seen as normal behaviour!!!
Psychologists that commented on Love says that when someone loves nature or animals would seem weird to us, if that person would love only one tree or one animal... Psychologically this would be considered an obsession... but not in what concern love and people, this isn`t seen as an obssesion... of course this being the case where two people feel something for each other and not the case when only one person says it cares for someone...
And we come to the real issue behind this post: Jealousy
This is a feeling that, globally, is positioned in second place after wars in what concerns deaths!!!
Did you ever think in detail about how jealousy is produced???
You have to know that animals don`t have this feeling of jealousy... and also in what concern people it apears only in certain conditions and in certain social groups. Civilizations that don`t know the meaning of private property don`t know jealousy... this is a fact!!!
So please do everything possible to stay positive, to grow as a human being, to learn to know yourself, to learn how to love yourself and then give love... and you will have a stronger chance to feel happy close to the one you love!!! This only comes from Personal Development!!!
Wish you the best!!! Have Fun!!!
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Most of the time I like animals better than people... precisely because they do not exhibit negative qualities... I always remember a poem bu Walt Whitman called LEaves of Green where he talks about this subject and how he could turn and live with the animals because they do not whine about their condition, are not manic about the mania of owning things... etc... it is a great poem...
However, I said almost always :: I love people too every now and again when I feel social and must venture forth from my fortress to mix and mingle, hopefully dropping seeds of good here and there and helping others achieve their goals... I am not a very jealous person myself, but notice it here and there around me... it is destructive, no doubts about it...best avoided. In my opinion, what's the point. If you love something (or someone) set them free - if they come back to you they're yours, if they don't...? well they don't, get over it... to me that is love if you can offer freedom to someone and respect their freedom within agreed parameters... and that's between each individual couple.
Great subject, I might do a post on it now, I'm inspired... thanks ...
I could go on, but I want to read your other posts in this exciting series which I hadn't noticed before...
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