Vanessa@home

Green Bay, Wisconsin, UNITED STATES


Joined February 25th 2008

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Keeping it simple

About Me
Blessed by God and determined to stay that way. I'm also middle aged and have experienced a lot. Some bad, most good.

I have two sons both grown and moved away. I'm retired now. I was an art Illustrator working from home for over a decade until an illness wiped out that part of my memory. Now I write and blog. I enjoy being alive and being at home.

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Recent Posts

The Wonder of A New Year

January 10th 2009 02:57
I'm in the wonder of the new year. There were a lot of decisions to make as the old year made way for the new. First I admitted I'm a blog addict. It's a good thing since I love to write. Second I got into photography with FILM. Right now I'm using an old camera I bought at a thrift shop. I'm posting one of the pictures I took with it of my patio in winter. But I warn you I did a little work on it to give it a dreamy effect with Picasa.

I wish I could do the whole dark room thing but I'm allergic to chemical fumes. Still I get a kick out of film camera photos.

Don't get me wrong I like Digital cameras. But I lost one a few years ago and that kind of money hasn't grown on a tree yet to replace it. So for now I'm having a really nice time with this old film camera until I buy another Digital, that will be another month or so.

Softened snow


Besides blogging like I've lost my mind, I'm active on Twitter and a few content sites. Seems I've created a habit of posting here only periodically. I think I'm trying to figure out exactly what it is I'm doing here.

But one thing I'm learning about blogs and writing is each one has a sort of personality of their own. They refuse to conform to anything other than what they should be. This site for instance, I post here as if by instinct. Suddenly one day I just think it's time. One time Orble contacted me about my serious neglect. But I think there is more to it. Blogs are not like traditional writing. There is no set standard to impose or a particular type of writing you must attend to. The day that happens blogs will no longer have any appeal. Bad writing or good you just plug away until that confidence comes.

I'm still working on trying to write well. It's hard to gauge sometimes, especially on the Internet with blogs. You have to post at such a steady pace to establish them well on the Web. Quality can get lost. After all you're a one woman (or man) publication, writer, editing, and all the other hats it takes like promotion.

On the other hand you do learn your way around and get better in the long run.

Here is the address to one of my blogs, the one I've had the longest and almost gave up. But maybe that's another post...I'm glad I didn't let the Orble blog go. There is just something about it. Hope to figure it out this year.



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I've been busy writing, and of course enjoying being able to have a command post at home. One of the reasons I chose the name: So At Home. Been away so long Orble had to contact me.

Stretching yourself too thin is one of the challenges of the Internet. There are so many opportunities that you can get a little greedy. For instance, how many blogs or websites do you have? Are you doing any of them justice? It's really easy to trade off excellence for opportunity isn't it? How many opportunities are beating a path to your door through e-mails, phones, mobiles, etc.

I found I'm either working on excellence or opportunity. Rarely both. I guess the best would be an integration, but sometimes one tends to yield to the other. I want to write well. It's not easy but it helps that I love to write.

Because I had to retire early for medical reasons, I've come to appreciate the idea of assessing opportunities when I find a major change has to be made. Being at home is an asset if I focus on the little things that make life amazing. Being at home allows you time to think and create order in your little space. When there is order, time becomes your friend instead of something to be chased and harnessed every day.

Where am I going with this? Sometimes it's not more opportunities or the next big thing. Sometimes it's just allowing opportunities to pass me by if it means I have to give up my quest for excellence. It isn't found in the next big thing but in perfecting that one thing that keeps jumping out at me.

Writing at home is that one thing for me. As for excellence, well, it's one step at a time. It's the journey leading to the destination. It's realizing excellence IS the great opportunity. I get butterflies just thinking about it!
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I'm Back

July 2nd 2008 04:36
Well, it was all I could think of for a title. I wasn't really gone. Just waiting. It is so nice to see the sidebar toned down. I don't have anything to say yet. Just wanted to post something to say thanks to all who visited the blog while I was away. Orble really is a great site and you just want something as nice as this to stay that way.

What is the image about? Well, I didn't get married! It's something I created about a week ago using an online resource and a little imagination.



I may be on to something. By the way, I changed the name a bit to just: SO AT HOME..and thanks again to Orble for cleaning up the sidebar.
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Integrity Getting Hard to Find

April 28th 2008 15:25
This may be my last post on Orble. I first want to apologize to anyone who followed a link here from my other sites and were forced to view the images on the sidebar as they read my posts. My bad and I apologize.

In the short time I've been posting here I have found it extremely difficult to ignore the bottom feeding images and blog post titles on the Orble sidebar. The excuse that this is just the way the world is and we have to accept it is a cop-out for a site like this


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I have a love hate going for Social Networks. I felt the same way about RSS feeds until I began reading more and realized the value of having everything come to me in on place.

But Social Networks are different. They require some real work to keep up with. I work from home as a writer and enjoy being at home. It's like a dream come true to do what you really like doing and be able to do it from home


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Bitter People and Happy Moments

March 19th 2008 23:49


Being on the web a lot you become sensitive to things and people even though you can't see them face to face. Some people make it easy because they never have anything good to say. But who knows how many are silent and bitter


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He's 83, Let the Man Talk

February 26th 2008 22:57
I was talking to my dad the other night on the phone. My mom passed a year ago. He lives alone now. We're a few hundred miles apart. The phone is a blessing. After we had been gabbing a few minutes, He suddenly said,

"Vanessa, you know a guy said to me the other day


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When you close the door

February 25th 2008 01:34
There is something wonderful about going home at the end of a day of work or running errands. Home is the place where I have lived and worked it seems like, forever. I've learned to enjoy the simple things that make it a special place. Even though I have moved a number of times over the years, in my mind home is the place where I have memories stored of raising my two sons. Its the garden I use to have. Its the patio where birds gather all four seasons waking me up with their silly songs.

Its the place where I have laughed and cried and cooked and cleaned and run a small business. Friends and family gathered there and whenever I have had to move I could always take one thing with me that never gets lost. The memories and experiences that make the next place all that much more special.
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Recent Comments

Comment by Vanessa@home
on R Bloggers Not Accountable?

April 26th 2008 18:23
There's nothing wrong with blogging. There is something wrong with people. Blogs are the world with computers and Internet access.

With a click you can ruin an innocent child's life or cause morality to succumb to bottom feeders. History proves people are capable of policing themselves just refuse to do it. Its called lawlessness.

But who calls the shots when what is right is a matter of opinion? Just look at the sidebars on Orble for example.

The biggest issue is the double standard that flourishes through Internet investors and search engines, while speaking against bottom feeding they make money by supporting inappropriate and immature content on the web like inappropriate advertising that is generated on sites sneaking it in by the back door. Not an accident. It makes money. People like the stuff. It makes money.

Personal integrity is the answer but it will never override the corruption. It is an uphill battle with no plateau.

But it has to be employed every day or watch the Internet continue to plummet into something that appeals to only the lowest in human beings.

Taking a stand is not for those who crave to be popular at all cost or see money as the point of life on the planet. People know what is right and wrong. It is somewhat of a useless debate.


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Comment by Vanessa@home
on What Do You Think About Social Networks?

April 24th 2008 04:47
Thanks Tyrone,

Hey, you're one up on me. I can't remember if I even joined Facebook or not. I think I got caught up in following trends on the Web instead of being honest with myself. I'm not all that social. Some people are and it works for them.

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Comment by Vanessa@home
on Bitter People and Happy Moments

March 22nd 2008 16:37
Hi Harry,

You know the saying, living in this world will either make you bitter or you'll become better? I think becoming better is the sweetest revenge. My faith in God has taught me over the years, the world can knock me down a hundred times but it can't knock me out.

His strength just keeps getting me up. I finally figured out why He gave us tears. They clear our eyes to see past failure and hurt to the other side to see how blessed we are.

One of my favorite verses is Psalm 30:5 it says, weeping endures for a night but joy comes in the morning. I have had to remember that verse many times in my life. Sometimes the weeping endured more than one night. But the joy does come back. Okay, I'm talking too much...Thank you for the comment Harry.

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