You found out he doesn't want you for a relationship and that it's better if you stay friends.
Well maybe it is better for him that you stay friends but you still want more.
So how do you make him realise that he needs and wants you as his girlfriend?
You make him work. Simple.
You make him work a bit more, you make him notice all the good things about you and you flirt a bit more than usual with other guys.
If it works, you are a genius but things take time and require a little bit of work.
The golden rule is that you don't say yes to everything he says or asks.
Make him work sometimes for your attention and give things space and time.
Do not always start the conversations.
Spend less time with him.
This will make him realise that a piece of his life is missing, that things do not feel the same with out you next to him.
With this said just remember this is something that is hard and time consuming. It doesn't always work even though in theory it makes sense.
Take time and if you feel like it doesn't seem to be working just move on and put your time into somebody else who appreicates it.
What can someone say about themselves in a blog people will read over the internet? Well how about the complete truth about me, Ness B.
I am currently at university and enjoying it, however it is just dawning upon me that university life is another chapter than I am yet to learn. So, let me take you with me every week and give you gossip installments about my life and my 'real world'.
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It all starts with this guy. I like him and well up until about 15 minutes ago I thought he liked me too. Obviously, like always, I was wrong.
He just wants to be friends. How ironic.
The worst thing is that so many people warned me and told me not to go there and that he wasn't here for relationships and what not.
It is not as though I can blame him, everyone just wants sex, but the fact that I am once again unlucky in love.
This proves that no matter what aspect change in my life I still am completly shitty and alone.
I feel like everyone can relate to this one.
Sad huh?
I feel as though I am meant to be suffering for something bad I have done. That perhaps, I should stop bothering with guys and everything else and just float around in my loveless world by myself, not that it would be a change from my daily routine anyway.
Anyway back to my sad loveless story.
Everything felt so right and new. I thought that it was all going to be fine and that for once, just once, I would finally have this person care for me in a private and intimate relationship.
That my prince charming had come to love me.
Sad to think that I could ever let my imagination run wild like that. I should control it more and better yet, forget about relationships.
I just want a guy for once to be interested in me without myself having to do anything.
I think that its every womans dream to have a man ask her out for a date and really put in the effort because he likes her. Not because he just likes the thought of her body in bed with his, but the actual thought of her just being with him for a few hours to talk and share interests.
I know this sounds corny but the truth be told it is romantic and something we all want one day or another.
Well trust me, updates will be blogged and you will be sure to know about how I am coping with it all.
I know i will manage. It always happens and I think humans have a natural ability to deal with these heart crunching situations.
Ness B
Sitting on the phone listening to his voice as he tells you that he likes you as a friend.
A friend? Is he serious. You are like the best thing that he has in your opinion.
He continues to ask if you are ok.
Well the obvious answer is no.
If you told him how you really felt it would be a painful description of how your heart feels like it is breaking down the middle slowly with every word he says.
Nobody ever realises how long it takes to mend a broken heart because it differs from each individual.
Personally I like the whole 'just get over it' mental talk.
Tell myself that I will survive and that one day I will be with someone who finally likes me back.
Broken hearts do not last forever, although they do take a long time to mend and heal.
I think if hearts couldn't be broken life would be boring and full of lessons in love we couldn't ever possibly learn.
It makes us all stronger and more aware of ourselves and others emotions.
You will survive a broken heart just like before and make it through to the other side where it will all start over again, hopefully this time without the heart break.
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