Trudy

Gregory, Michigan, UNITED STATES


Joined November 2nd 2006

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If you can't stand behind the troops; feel free to stand in front of them.

About This Blog
Here you will find issues that matter to me as the wife of an Operation Iraqi Freedom Veteran.
My main goal is to offer some insight to families but I am passionate about the issues that effect not only families but our troops and Veteran's.
If you have any thoughts or idea on subject matter you would like to see, I would love to hear from you.

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The time has come

February 3rd 2007 00:21
To say goodbye. Due to many other projects, I just don't have the time to give this blog the attention it needs.
Thanks to all who have read me and commented.
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Holiday Wishes

December 19th 2006 16:46
I'm sorry I haven't been around much but I have been fighting off whatever this most recent bug that has been going around.
I wanted to collect messages from others and post them here for the troops but I have changed my mind and decided to ask all of you who take the time to visit this page to leave your own message to those who are far from home this season and to their families as well.

Please keep in mind this week as you sit down with your loved ones and enjoy a day or even days together that there are many who will have Christmas in a mess tent or a mess hall far from home and there will be families on this side with only one real wish for Christmas and that will be a call from their loved one.
Please keep the messages to good wishes and support, we can discuss politics another time. You don't have to leave your name if you don't wish to do so but please do leave a message.

If you know of a service member who needs to be able to make a call home you can request a 10 minute calling card from operation uplink or if you prefer you can make a donation. My husband recieved a few of these while he was in Iraq and those ten minutes made a world of difference on both our morale and our budget. I don't endorse a great many charities because I have limited experience but Operation Uplink is one of the finest I have ever seen.
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My own message to our troops and families.

Without you and those who have come before you, we would not be free to celebrate the holidays in any way we see fit. Because of you, you live in freedom and for that we all owe you a huge debt of gratitude. The price of freedom is not only paid on the frontlines but back home as well. My prayer for all of you is that you are soon reunited with your loved ones in a safe and free world. God Bless and thank you.
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This was written by my friend Johna Moody. With her permission I am posting this here, thank you Johna for both your generosity and your infinite wisdom.


I Have been around for a very long time. I have experienced some very strange behavior from people regarding politics, personal behavior and spiritual things especially. I had taken it seriously. People said to me don't let it bug you, consider the source, they are just that way. But some of those using that strange behavior was doing so in the name of Debate, some called me names I don't use in privacy still others ridiculed me and spoke of my lack of whatever they were peddling that day: education, travel, sophistication. Who cares they used it.

I have been studying war talk lately. I hear those who have no clue going off on those who do. I find those who want no part of any war, just peace and freedom; these appear to be completely unaware of the cost of freedom and oh so brief peace. I like people. I like myself. I like varied writing, discussion and disagreement. I do not like it when people decide to deride decency to make a point that has no point. I want to share my points of view on this. In my opinion freedom has been ours for a long time and was purchased with the lives, limbs and dedication of those fighting for it every time it was in question. To me every member of a free society owes it to the Military and their families a debt of gratitude in thank you, and governmental monetary aid to meet all their needs including medical, housing and places to talk, worship or just be with people who care. I am not open for any debate, discussion, or fight over this.

Debate has rules, strict rules. The point of debate is to prove your point of view or stance to be the correct one. Thus the other person has to be wrong. There are judges in the proof. That can not go on under bias conditions such as bias media with any level of fairness and justice. So NO DEBATE CAN BE PROVED PUBLICLY WITH ACCURACY, FAIRNESS AND JUSTICE. Debate is a forum. Debate is not a amateur sport.

Discussion has rules, rules that stop discussion short of a fight. These rules are civil rules known by civilized man. Discussion is to increase the knowledge base of a subject, to lead a participant to a higher level not to tear them or their subject matter down. Discussion must carry with it respect. It can not ride on the backs of a 'know it all attitude' and use various critical verbiage to belittle the person who disagrees with you. Civilized people can disagree and never offend one another.

Disrespect is the art of demanding your way right or wrong. It is the act of using illegal tools to beat the other person into shame, shape or submission. This is gained by calling others names when they have simply told you they don't see an issue like you see it. It is calling others names and doing an all out campaign of disrespect against them when they call you one back in the same area, be it political, religious, military or racial.

The First Amendment was not created so you could call anybody anything you wanted to. It is not there to cover the disrespectful. It is there to allow people freedom of expression in discussion or a civil manner of resistance to political, religious or racial acts. It is not to cover hate language. Any derogatory shaming and evil name calling is disrespectful and not your right under the First Amendment.

Some of the Judgments that float even in public media are not covered by the First Amendment:

Your faith in God does not make you a Bible Thumping Fundie; however, that name is not taken by those of faith as derogatory, it is meant to be.

Education is never to be ashamed of, but what is it? It can be a college certified completion of a study or course. It can be an experience learned by hard knocks. It can be a lesson learned by someone's show of love and understanding. Then it can be the joys of Wisdom learned through humility, strength and courage to say what is needed and only that. It can be a man or woman's stint in the military fighting for your First Amendment's right.

If you can control your need to always be right; to always speak your piece and others be damned you are behaving a way we are fighting in the Middle East to break. To have here and give them the right to speak without retribution. Are we coming under retribution in this country for demanding civility, respect and freedom from vile disrespect which is violent behavior.

© Johna Moody 2006

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A Soldier's Liberties

December 6th 2006 03:28
The other night my husband and I were talking about politics and the such and as he often does when I least expect it; he came up with a gem of wisdom that knocked my socks off.

As we discusses protesters, etc... he said to me: "You know it's pretty sad that we give up our right to say no, we give up the right to walk away, we give up our normal lives, our jobs and our family; we give up our basic freedoms to defend those who disagree with everything we do


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The Pledge Of Allegience

December 4th 2006 11:00
I am not generally a fan of anyone in politics and in general I figure when they start talking they have an agenda behind it, but this is one time, I am grateful that someone spoke up and said something. This was sent to me by a friend and I figure it's worth sharing with others.


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Troops Really Don't Want To Go To Iraq?

November 29th 2006 14:47
The following is not my work. It was written by a friend of mine from another blog group his screen name is Corbin_Dallas. I should have asked if he wanted his real name used so Corbin if you are around and you want to introduce yourself please do so.

Not satisfied with John Kerry’s simply calling our brave soldiers dumb and lazy Charlie Rangel drove the Democrat point home more directly


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Speak For Yourself

November 28th 2006 03:43
I have something that is seriously nagging at me and after I get permission from certain people I will post about it tommorow but in the meantime here is the basis of that irritation.

SPEAK FOR YOURSELF! Military members and their families are sick to death of everyone from DC to the milk man telling everyone where we stand, how we feel and what we think


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Hindsight

November 24th 2006 17:29
They say hindsight is 20/20 if that is the case then I have the best eyesight in the world at this point.
Talking with a friend today I told her that she needed to make a point of finishing school and having options for herself even if she is married to a service member that makes a good living. To her benefit he is 100% behind her getting her education. I realized while speaking with her that the biggest mistake I made during my husband's deployment was I was busy trying to take care of everyone but myself. I kept myself insanely busy to the point that I simply could not go anymore.
For a year, I put myself and much of my identity aside and became nothing more than the wife of a deployed soldier. I was the go to person when someone needed anything done and there was always something, I was the person that people called when they wanted information or simply because they were having a bad day. Very seldom would I turn and ask someone else for a bit of support for myself. I was the positive attitude person who was falling to pieces bit by bit inside. I did have a few people I could talk with but I didn't want anyone to worry so I seldom actually allowed much of what I was feeling out in the open


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Happy Thanksgiving

November 23rd 2006 14:03
As I sit here today my husband is out in the woods hunting and I am getting everything together for dinner. We missed Thanksgiving together last year by a couple of weeks which makes this year so much more important to me.
I am thankful for some many things today that if I start listing them all there won't be a dinner on the table tonight.
Mostly, I am grateful for the people in our lives. We are blessed with a wonderful extended family that we would be lost without. For all that you have done and been to us. Thank you


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Worth Seeing

November 21st 2006 16:02
While I am sure there is a way to imbed video's here, I am not that skilled. Here are a couple that I think are very much worth seeing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udY42ApRR-I


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Recent Comments

Comment by Trudy
on Orble Xmas Party!

December 6th 2006 15:01
I live in the US, that a bit too far for a day trip LOL!

Comment by Trudy
on The thrill of written words

December 6th 2006 14:54
I love seeing how someone else views the world and how they tell their story. One of my favorite writers is Pat Conroy because the way he colors his work with images painted through his words, it's amazing.

Comment by Trudy
on What If He Can Change the Day

December 6th 2006 14:47
I don't think I have ever heard of this show. Sounds interesting though LOL!

Comment by Trudy
on Are You Comfortable With Your Sexuality?

November 24th 2006 17:43
Wow! I have missed all the sex talk around here! I better do some catching up LOL!
I do agree with you, everyone is telling us how we are supposed to have sex, with whom and to what degree we should or should not enjoy it. UGH...get them all out of my bedroom it feels like group sex!

Comment by Trudy
on Whisper

November 23rd 2006 19:19
IThis movie sounds good. Thanks for the comment on my blog.

Comment by Trudy
on Orble Pays Bloggers $40 per week...

November 23rd 2006 15:59
I have up days and down days but my content is rather limited to the things I am most passionate about.
You certainly have a heck of a lot more votes than I do LOL!
I don't always have time to comment back but I do try to read everyone who comments to me.

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on Marriage After Deployment

November 9th 2006 16:16
We learn as we go, don't we? If there is a next time I swear, I'll just take a vacation and let him go to his dad's
Taking my net away is just WRONG!

Comment by Trudy
on The Day After

November 9th 2006 16:02
The problem is they have seen and heard these things...they just don't really care that much.
Instead of being about what things should really be about: what is best for the US people prefer to beat politics to death. It has never been about the politics for me and it never will. The Iraqi people no longer have to suffer under a monster and nobody is flying planes into our buildings and killing thousands of innocent civilians. As long as those factors remain, it's all worth it.

Comment by Trudy
on It's Official - Britney is Divorcing K-Fed!

November 8th 2006 15:32
thank goodness! They can never breed again!

Comment by Trudy
on Election Day 2006

November 8th 2006 15:23
Get the military vote cancelled? I miss this.
Well, as we all know the election didn't go as the military hoped. Now all I can do is hope and pray that my husband's time in Iraq will not have been in vain. But then again, who ever bothered to ask the troops anyway...they have been nothing more than a political agenda for the dem's who keep trying to speak for them without ever speaking with them.