Tracy 4

st. petersburg, Florida, UNITED STATES


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Always check your moral compass and listen to your inner voice, UNLESS your compass is pointing South and your Inner Voice is makin' crazy talk.

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Save Money. Be Proactive.

June 29th 2009 19:32
Hat's Off to all the Handy folks! If you have a knack for home repairs, or vehicle repairs, you're well on the way to getting back to "getting by."

Tip for today's Blog:
Clean Things Work Better (please see list below) be proactive, but if a problem seems beyond your abilities -Get Referrals from neighbors/friends/co-workers, or at the very least, check with your local Better Business Bureau (BBB.com) before contracting for repairs. Even something minor can turn into a grand expense if you decide to trust the wrong person/company.

Renters and those with vehicles still covered by warranty usually catch a break here. Even home owners smart enough to negotiate a warranty clause into their purchase contract are at an advantage,

but what about the rest of us here in the viper pit?

What about those of us who slog along, barely keeping our mortgage current (and sometimes not) on a home that seems to eerily sense when money is tight? What about those of us with less than new vehicles that seemingly keep chugging along on squinty hopes that they'll get us safely home? I'm sure we can all find someone, or something to blame for all the unfair carpy crap that we endure, BUT the blame game doesn't fix anything except your sights on the wrong target.

Clean Things Work Better.

Below is a list of preemptive measures that can be taken Before things get too financially difficult to cope with;

-Routine oil changes and fluid/tire inspections on your vehicle(s). They're not too pricey (mine was $19.99) and should be done at manufacturers suggested intervals. Especially for those of us with older vehicles.

-Clean the coils of your refrigerator (check manufactures guidelines). I usually clean mine every few months. I use the soft brush from my vacuum attachment. If it's been a while since you checked your coils, once cleaned, you should notice a change in unit efficiency and you'll be able to lower fridge/freezer thermostat settings.

-If you have a clothes dryer, a small investment in a lint trap cleaner is much cheaper than having to rerun damp clothes. Check online, or local shops. I bought my manual cleaner for $9.99 and I noticed a difference after the first cleaning. I also found a few things that looked like shredded money, sooooooo

-Always check your pockets before doing laundry. Not only can tissues, coins, pens, lighters, etc. damage your washer/dryer, they can also become lodged in washer drainage line. Nobody needs to pay a plumber $200.00 to hand them a wet wad of business cards wrapped around sticks of chewing gum.

-Clean off your roof and clean your gutters, but be careful. Excess tree limbs, leaves, Frisbees, and any other items that could end up on a roof, can cause damage to shingles/tiles over time. Excess debris in gutters can cause poor drainage and also damage roof & fascia. All you need is a ladder and really good balance. You may consider a harness for roof work (available online & shops).

-This may sound condescending, but I'm speaking from my own painful experience, keep your mouth clean. In my early twenties, I was a bit of a brushing slacker. I had formed good oral hygiene habits as a child and when I left the nest it was "one of those things" that wasn't all that important, usually after a late night of partying, studying, TV watching, etc. A few years later, after an emergency dental visit for a painful molar, I was presented with a repair estimate of over $5,000 for other wonky things going on in my mouth. Let's just say that 20 years later, I don't have all my teeth in my head, but I can still smile with confidence and eat a chewy steak (on one side). I now floss & brush twice daily and when finances allow, I have an occasional cleaning at the dentist.

-Take care of your electronics and small appliances. Televisions, stereos (even portables), computers/laptops, hair dryers, microwaves and anything else that uses vented cooling systems, or motor driven cooling systems needs to be able to breath. There are a gamut of items and specialized tools, but I prefer my trusty old vacuum (big bertha) and her soft brush attachment. Be safe and unplug first. Better efficiency and longer life are both only a few sucks away.

-Central air conditioners/heaters should (of course) have their filters changed regularly. It's also recommended that the unit be serviced before the onset of both summer and winter. I'm not going to pooh-pooh this notion, but I live in Florida and we typically only experience hot and hotter. Finances permitting, I usually schedule an annual check-up right before the hotter. The cost ranges from $50.00-$100.00 and they SHOULD inspect all aspects of your system. That includes the heat pump, the air handler, the thermostat(s) and your duct work. Make sure you ask for the detailed list of their inspection "points" before you schedule an appointment. Then get a recommendation and check with the BBB to find a reputable company.

Thanks for reading and please check back for future Money Mistress Blogs.
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Pinch it, Save it, Make it Work!

June 23rd 2009 20:20
MONEY, it's yours until you give it away. These brutal economic times are causing many of the "getting by" people to become "help! help!" desperate people. If you can relate to the later, relax . . .

. . . we're going to get through all this mess and things can get better soon.

One bright side is that you wouldn't be reading this blog if you lacked the desire to make changes.

Most of the ideas that I'll be sharing here are simple tips and tidbits that are not meant to make you rich quick, or an overnight millionaire. Just easy ideas that could help you get back to the "getting by" without the "help! help!"

On that note, try really hard NOT to get sucked into the advertisements for the "You too can do this" money making formulas. I'm not knocking any of the committed few who have made a success of their initial investment. I am talking about the majority who would be better served by paying down a few bills, or buying a few canned goods for a rainy day, rather than investing in a formula that you won't be taught until you give-up Your Money.

That being said, a good tip for today is to take advantage of your bank's/credit union's offer to "Keep the Change." If your bank/credit union doesn't offer this program, well, you know.

These programs don't really make you any extra money, other than a very tiny interest dividend, but they do help build-up a little savings. Anytime you make a purchase using your bank account associated debit card, the change is transferred to your savings account. An $5.25 purchase will put $.75 cents into savings.

Many banks/credit unions offer to match funds for new accounts, up to a certain amount (typically $100.00).

I rarely carry cash and use my debit card almost exclusively. On a typical month of normal purchases, I save between $15.00 to $25.00. That's without any effort. What I do with that savings should make a great topic for next time.
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The Grocery Conspiracy

April 26th 2009 19:05
Okay major grocery chains and you big all-in-one retail chains, I GET IT, but give a girl a break.

As a full-time caregiver to my gram, my "alone" shopping time is limited to maybe an hour a week. The rest of any shopping time is done with my grandmother in tow.

Either she holds one of those little baskets in her lap while I push her in her wheelchair, or I have to find one of the store's coveted shopping cart front wheelchairs and bring it out to the car. Side note:Gram's Alzheimer's has progressed to the point where she is a true hazard on a motorized shopping cart. I have a permanent tire tread imprint on the back of my heel as proof.

#1. On the few occasions that there is a wonderfully rickety dangerously front-heavy (if loaded with more than a loaf of bread and a banana) grocery wheelchair available, it's difficult to take it out of the store and to the car to get Gram without getting tackled by a manager, or some sort of store security. That is for in-store use only Mam. Yes, the "Mam" still bugs me even at 43yo.

#2. If I do get an hour to shop for groceries alone, there's the whole mongo huge cart issue. I know you're making the carts bigger so that I'll feel stupid if I only buy an 8-pack of toilet paper, a few cans of soup, some orange juice and maybe a six pack of beer, but that's all I'm gonna get, no matter how huge you make the carts!

And yes, it's a big pain in the butt to navigate around all the other shoppers who felt the same way that I did when they walked into the store, but somehow become disoriented slug-like zombies who stop in the middle of the aisles to stare at cereal. It's CEREAL, it fills you up and makes you poop, pick one and Move On!

Same with the beer, it's BEER! It fills you up and makes you poop! If the taste is sooooo important that you have to slog back and forth in front of the cooler case reading descriptions (What's an IPA? What's the difference between Ale and Lager? Is that one from Mexico?), then go to the liquor store like a normal novice and get out of the way. After you have the first two, it really won't matter what it tastes like.

#3. The big front wheel on one side of the cart. Why? I do know it really hampers my attempts to go maverick and move against the normal flow of grocery traffic, but I swear I feel a resistance from the cart when I try to hurry past the sexy displays for luscious Pepperidge cookies, or the BOGO on Doritos.

Also, I am not a parking spot troller. I would rather walk an extra minute than cruise around for an undefined time, waiting for that ohhhhhh so close spot. SO, my question is, What's up with the locking wheels on the carts? Sure, I have seen a few grocery carts on the side of the road in my past 43 years, but just a few. Is shopping cart theft really such an epidemic that I can't park outside the first ten rows in front of the store without having to go get my car and bring it to my locked-up grocery cart?

#4. Everyone's wise to the whole better savings on the top and bottom row items. Knock it off. I'm tall and I don't mind reaching, or squatting for a good deal on almost anything.
I think it would be smarter to put the good deals on the middle shelves and the pricey stuff on the top and bottom. If the average consumer is anything like me at all, we spend most of our lives reaching and squatting to get ahead, or stay ahead, but we have a hard time seeing the good deals right in front of us. Ya think?
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Caregiver relief Blog

April 24th 2009 01:51
Just an addition to thoughts from OFFrustrations.

I'm still waiting on the caregiver relief fund to kick in SOOOO, for the moment, I'm spilling my GRRRR onto another Blog that shouldn't reflect too harshly on my relationship with my first love, Gram


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. . . can't be done, ever, never and yes, that's a mighty long time. Even the simple things can feel like a battle, (Me at first) THOSE are pajamas, not an outfit, please wear this, not that, yes, they're really pajamas, yes, I gave them to you for your birthday, but they're still pajamas, please change your clothes. (Me Now) NICE outfit.
Strive for sanity saving (yours) simplicity.
Going back to the experience at the foot doctor on Tuesday, (at least I think it was Tuesday, is this stuff catching?) in the waiting room, listening to the woman yellling at her mother who apparently suffers from dementia. YES MOM! We've been here before! We've been coming here every three months for the past two years! We talked about it before we left, we talked about it in the car AND I've told you 4 times since we've been sitting here! Please, read your magazine and let me read my book


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Yes, you can throw that away.

April 22nd 2009 19:28
Gram is 91 and has lived through many economic changes, including this most recent crappy hard-on-us-all stinky I'm tired of rice and beans and beans with potatoes and beans with beans. ANYWAY, Gram likes juice in little bottles and she likes to have a straw (provided by McDonald's wonderful all you can grab Napkin, Straw and condiment bar---hey, times are tough). Gram likes little crackers, little broken potato chips, little bits of candy (and other little things that I used to consider crumbs) served on little flimsy paper plates. She also wears disposable pull-up panties (after a few "accidents"-more to share on that in the future). Here's the thing . . . if I didn't monitor the contents of her room on a daily basis, she would have a very large collection of dirty straws, dirty juice bottles, dirty greasy little paper plates and dirty diaper panties displayed on any flat surface she could find. Don't worry, I do recycle and reuse many of the pieces from her collection, but I draw the line at switching to adult cloth diapers-that's just not going to happen.
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I Don't Caregiver (sometimes).

April 22nd 2009 04:10
Always smiling and always happy . . . today was a trip to the foot doctor. Yum, feet, my favorite part of the human body. Don't even like touching my own & can't stand to watch the pedicure person trim my talons on the RARE occasions that they get too scruffy that they snag a sock (I'm in FL. and it's mostly open-toe here).
GRAM didn't want to go to here appointment, didn't want to be there once we got there, and didn't like waiting for over 45 min. to see the doctor BEFORE, I'd had enough of another Caregiver in the waiting room yelling (yes screaming) at her mother about their need to see the doctor and the fact that they had arrived late and had to wait and we (Gram and I) were sitting in their normal seats and repeat to her mom and repeat to her mom and offer our seats and no thank you and me repeat to Gram and so on . . . Anyway, it was just for a nail trim. So, any fetish footists with a thing for 90plus females, please sharpen your clippers and send me a line.
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Demented Granny Love

April 21st 2009 04:13
Okay. First post to this bloggy thing and I may crab on a bit, but ARRRGGGG! What's that in your panties Gran? She doesn't know, and besides, she's never seen those panties before in her life. ARRRG! Well, they're your panties. Did you have an accident? She can't hear me soooo, repeat-huh?-repeat-huh?-(yell) and repeat!!!! WELL YOU don't have to scream at me!!!!!!! ARRRRGGG! No I didn't have an accident and . . . . . . . . . . . . I wish I were younger.
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