The Mystery of Guys and Sex.........
July 21st 2007 01:09
A new found Modern Mystery.................
I was sitting having a few bevvies with my sister and a friend of hers last night an lo and behold they both started complaining their Boyfriends didn't put out enough.....I'll have to say I was amused and shocked. This is a note to all the guys out there who complain they don't get enough from their women, and particularly in response to a post on Orble a few weeks ago that amused me greatly about a guy who wasnt getting any that particular night - can't find the link apologies-
Most of my adult life I have worked with men and I always hear them complain - sometimes incessantly - that their wives/girlfriend don't put out enough; so I kinda just always assumed Guys have higher sex drives than women and put it down to that....a fact of life......
But my sister and her friend completely shattered that illusion...They said niether have ever been in a relationship where they get enough and most of their girlfriends say the same.......-ok now I know you are thinking they are ugly but trust me these girls are pretty hot - What is their definition of not enough you may ask, well they were both perplexed by the fact their Boyfriends only seemed interested twice a week......and complained they always had to ask for it....talk about the opposite to what guys say......
I don't really know what to make of all this, maybe the true battle in love is finding a person who wants it as much and when you do, maybe guys you aren't putting in the hard yards to get your girls in the mood....my sister and her friend had the theory that guys like to talk about it and fantasize about it but when it comes to the crunch they are too lazy to put out most of the time, especially when there is beer and football involved.....maybe its just Aussie blokes...who knows....
P.S. Guys this isn't meant to be an attack, don't take it personal like...
I was sitting having a few bevvies with my sister and a friend of hers last night an lo and behold they both started complaining their Boyfriends didn't put out enough.....I'll have to say I was amused and shocked. This is a note to all the guys out there who complain they don't get enough from their women, and particularly in response to a post on Orble a few weeks ago that amused me greatly about a guy who wasnt getting any that particular night - can't find the link apologies-
Most of my adult life I have worked with men and I always hear them complain - sometimes incessantly - that their wives/girlfriend don't put out enough; so I kinda just always assumed Guys have higher sex drives than women and put it down to that....a fact of life......
But my sister and her friend completely shattered that illusion...They said niether have ever been in a relationship where they get enough and most of their girlfriends say the same.......-ok now I know you are thinking they are ugly but trust me these girls are pretty hot - What is their definition of not enough you may ask, well they were both perplexed by the fact their Boyfriends only seemed interested twice a week......and complained they always had to ask for it....talk about the opposite to what guys say......
I don't really know what to make of all this, maybe the true battle in love is finding a person who wants it as much and when you do, maybe guys you aren't putting in the hard yards to get your girls in the mood....my sister and her friend had the theory that guys like to talk about it and fantasize about it but when it comes to the crunch they are too lazy to put out most of the time, especially when there is beer and football involved.....maybe its just Aussie blokes...who knows....
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P.S. Guys this isn't meant to be an attack, don't take it personal like...
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Comment by James Rickard
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Comment by katyzzz
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Guys are full of hot air, it's all about impressing other males.
They say the sexiest thing a man can do for his wife is the washing up, but .....I don't know.
I really think it's hormones but you know what they say about alcohol and if you're fatigued from doing other things there's not much chance for them to rise to the occasion.
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Washing up yeah right....hahahahahaha only if they are pissed and don't realise they are doing it.
I am thinking the seventh inning stretch is way more sinister than a simple seven year itch....I guess as mere mortals we will never know
thanks for the comment, made me laugh
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Comment by Wendi
In cases where people aren't satisfied, I think either one or both people involved aren't fully connecting. Twice a week? Forget that... if my man is connecting with me on all levels? Twice a day wouldn't feel like enough! And if I'm loving my man the way he needs to be loved? He'll feel the same way.
It isn't just about the physical satisfaction. There's so much more involved, and if both people can tap into that? *dreamy sigh*..... there's no such thing as "enough". Satisfaction guaranteed.
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Comment by Nickoftime's Sanity Corner
from a male perspective, and maybe this is just me, sex between two partners who are connected on a much deeper level than just the physical can be an awesome experience!
If you're only going for the release, your mind is bound to wander and you're gonna get bored after a while...
You simply have to have that deeper spiritual connection for everything to work right and keep that fire alive in both of you...
There's no mystery involved...it's passion, lust, love, devotion and lots and lots of communication! If you can express what you need or want to your partner, man you're in serious trouble...
Just my opinion anyway..
Great post!
Take care,
Nick