long distance relationships; do they work
How exactly do you conduct a long distance relationship? Does it just exist on fleeting meetings, tender phone calls, emails and hard work? Because so far for me that is what it has been. My new relationship with a man who resides in another state has prompted me to really consider this question, carefully as someone who has a vested interest.
The whole thing is a new experience for me. It is nothing at all like commencing a new relationship with someone when they live nearby. You know usually you kind of spend maybe 2 or 3 days a week at either their place or yours, doing a mixture of things from both of your lives prior to meeting. Discovering and enjoying leisurely getting to see the picture of their life and how well or not it melds to yours.
Enter distance and this unfortunately means these experiences either don’t happen or have to be rushed in the fleeting time together. I have serious questions as to whether the getting to know one another can be done through emails and phone calls. Sure dreams and hopes can be shared etc; those are the things that are actually easier done and said without one on one pressure. Writing them down and telling someone how you feel is two completely different things [ Click here to read more ]
The whole thing is a new experience for me. It is nothing at all like commencing a new relationship with someone when they live nearby. You know usually you kind of spend maybe 2 or 3 days a week at either their place or yours, doing a mixture of things from both of your lives prior to meeting. Discovering and enjoying leisurely getting to see the picture of their life and how well or not it melds to yours.
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