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IN-DIVIDED-DUALISM: Individualism

May 28th 2009 09:08

IN-DIVIDED-DUALISM
Individualism

No two people are ever really at the same point, even though sometimes there seemingly may be similarities. Energetically; we are all on our own individual process of growing and evolving. This process of growth draws towards us an ever ascending flow of higher energies, experiences and people to enable us to re-align and re-define who we are and who we intend to be.
There is no begining and end point. Even though it could be percieved that your birth was your beginning and your death will be your end, this is not so. The process of evolution is quantum. It exists within the framework of your earthly life and beyond it. Your earthly journey at this time however is simply where your awareness is primarily based.
We are entering a phase in our collective evolutionary process where our awareness is expanding to include the forces and energies that exist beyond our field of physical earth experience.
You are being probbed on an individual level to expand your awareness and begin to consciously and actively direct your ascension process. In a sense, become your own leader and not be lead.
One of the easiest ways to begin this process is to begin with identifying and accepting where you are now. Embrace the place you find yourself and choose which circumstances in your life at this time you would like to keep and also those circumstances that would like to change.
After you have answered those fundamental questions comes the point of surrendering. Surrendering to your higher self simply means that you trust in the process of change, trust that those things in which do not align with who you feel you are, will in time be transformed.
Often times we try to control our circumstances or fight to change them and the more you attempt to control and fight against those things you do not want the more energy and attention you give them.
The more energy and attention those issues are given the more powerful and magnified that which you do not want becomes. We essentially become the stopsigns in our lives, and if we just step aside a little bit, get out the way, the higher aspects of ourselves have room to deliver us with more of what we do desire.
Perhaps that’s hardest part about surrendering, that we fail to trust our higher selves, or we doubt that our higher selves are even there and because everyone’s experience is so vastly different (individual), you have no-one as your guidepost. There is no step one, step two and step three. It is and it always WILL be an individual process for we are IN-DIVIDED-DUALISM.

I am not suggesting you trust in an unseen force, it’s about knowing and trusting that YOU are the unseen force. You are the GUIDE guiding you.
It’s about surrendering to yourself. The higher, wiser aspect of you that has always been with you waiting for you to love yourself enough, trust yourself enough, To KNOW you are THAT POWERFUL!

And you are*

Namaste, Leanne.

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Relationship Breakdown: The end of the co-op

May 28th 2009 09:02

Relationship Breakdown
The end of the co-op

As traumatic as it to lose not only a partner you loved, but the sense of an identity you held within a union for any length of time is one of life’s greatest challenges. Causes for the breakdown of relationships are varied and unique and allthough it emotionally affects us all in different ways; many of the core emotional feelings are due to the laws of energy transference between individuals.

I will attempt to explain what takes place on an energetic level and explore the dynamics of couple-dem from what I understand about relationships within the perspective that anything that occurs in your life, no matter how wonderful or how terrible it seems, has been delivered to you, in order for your evolutionary growth.

Many of us go through our late teens, early tweenties believing that another human or mate will complete us, make us whole. We gravitate toward it manifesting; sometimes even chase it by making ourselves avaliable to it (getting out there to mingle and party). We are filled with relationship ideals and desires that were formulated during our youth. Learning and inheriting positive and negative relationship patterns and habits mirrored by our parents, aunts & uncles and any other coupled adults we encoutered a great deal. Much of this process is sub-consious and we are not openly aware of just how many negative attitudes have (and positive) have been absorbed into our energetic field.

Once we find that special someone we hold on tight...we fall in love often hard and fast, which is a natural process of course. the thing is though, that as we fall in love, we literally "attach" our energy field to their energy field and vice versa...we become emotionally connected and LINKED by an unseen and often overlooked umbilical string from that person to ourselves.
that then creates co-dependancies and co-habitual patterns within the relationship and we begin to define ourselves as a piece of the co-op, subsequently losing more and more of our individuals selves.

Over the course of a marriage or long term relationship; countless co-patterns and co-habits emerge. Having children and changing the dynamics of a co-op creates even more limitation to the individual identity and also the primary couple (husband and wife).

The unfathomable loss felt emotionally is not only hurt and anger, but also a literal feeling and sense of that which completed you is now gone from you, in energy terms.. the umbilical cord between two co-existing units has now experienced trauma and breakage, the desperate feelings you encouter as a result is because you feel that emptying of the energy as their (your partners) begins the energetic seperation process. The energetic seperation process takes much longer than a physical up and leaving action. The closure or moment of healing for both parties is individual and can take a few weeks to a few years, depending on an individuals readiness to begin the healing process.

I can understand from my own experiences; the daunting concept of being on your own if it’s something you aren’t familiar with. For those who are/were married with children, the loss of the Ideal of family structure is hard to bear. On that note, I would like to add that nothing in your life, your husbands life, or your childrens lives can happen without the will of the higher self…and all that happens is as it should be. This is where you are meant to be at this point in time. I know it sucks! and feels as though you would NEVER have created this for yourself or your children, alas, your co-op co-created this event. For what can become of it, once you have walked the path back to re-discovering yourself is a much more rewarding life.

How do i know this? because IF your relationhip was/is emotionally , physically, mentally and spiritually balanced it would not break down! that is the way of it! The only relationships that can falter are ones that have co-imbalance...that is each member of the co-op, co-contributing to unhealthy emotional behaviours many of which one, or both members remain unawares of.

Once a relationship has found its physical conclusion then begins the difficult yet exciting path of rediscovering who you are as an individual unit. The discovery that you are WHOLE regardless of the positional/transitional stage your relationship is in.

It is tough and can feel overwhelming; yet I tell you this, the universe never delivers more than you can deal with. So you will trancend whatever issues or imbalances that arose during the relationship or for some of us it may require another relationship that mirrors similar experiences.

In order to assist you with clearing and cleansing as much of the co-baggage left after (or even during a relationship if still partnered), I have put forward an example of how one could assist themselves in their healing process.
a) Let out the anger. Not at or too anyone, but to the universe and yourself.
b) Let out the tears...cry yourself stupid till you begin to laugh. Don't be afraid to let it out...mourn it.
c)begin looking at your relationship/marriage in a new light and ask yourself:
What did i gain from my marriage?
What parts of myself did i lose in my marriage?
Who was dominant who was submissive?
What were our co-habits and patterns?
The answers to these questions provide you with the answers to where to go from here. You evaluate what defines you, what you want to keep and what you want to set aside. Allow yourself the proper time to heal and try new things or try old things you haven't done since you got married/settled into your relationship. Allow the new energies to enter your life, and when you begin doing that, new opportunities will open to you and new people will follow.
Another thing to keep in mind about us funny humans is that the real becoming of an adult occurs between 28-30. In astrological terms it is called "saturns return" (google it, it might help if you are 28-30). It is an emotional roller coast ride that forces you to redefine who you are, identify your soul purpose and put all that is out of balance into your life, back into balance...how this occurs seems like a whirlwind of chaos, but it is really just a shedding of outdated ideas, structures and beliefs and an influx of fresh ideas, structures and beliefs.

It is with humility that I leave you with the essay above, for I too have had to take the long road through the rugged terrain of relationships. Take from it what you feel aligns with your inner heart and set aside anything that doesn't sit right within.
I know it doesn't offer much relief to your pain in this moment and for that I send Love and the simple reminder that this too shall pass.
We are ALL much stronger than we realise and we will triumph; of that I am certain!
feel free to argue with me, yoyo your thoughts, ask questions. Go for it, i am at your service. smiles.
leanne.

*note: any questions, yoyo’ing of thoughts, or arguments regarding this article please email me : leanne@spiritualgrowthandheal ing.com.au or alternatively utilise our forum which we responed to weekly.

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