Some marriage tips
July 13th 2010 23:04
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Imagine that your partner has left you. You feel alone, desperate, and will do anything to get them back. You call your partner continually, do things that you know they like, and ask everyone you know to help you get your partner back. What you don't realize is that, in the process, you've given away any bargaining power you might have had. You've shown your partner that you want to accept 100% responsibility for the marriage , and your partner doesn't have to do anything except come back to you.
You may not believe this, but very few marriages reach the point of separation or divorce without being pushed along that path by both partners. Both of you influence each other in ways that may not even be visible. That's why it is so crucial that you look at why your marriage is in crisis. Even a tiny change in your attitude, actions, or lifestyle can completely change the dynamic of your marriage. You have enormous power , but only if you know how to use it.
You may not believe this, but very few marriages reach the point of separation or divorce without being pushed along that path by both partners. Both of you influence each other in ways that may not even be visible. That's why it is so crucial that you look at why your marriage is in crisis. Even a tiny change in your attitude, actions, or lifestyle can completely change the dynamic of your marriage. You have enormous power , but only if you know how to use it.
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