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The tragic passing of my cousins Ashish and Akshay in the recent Fox glacier accident last month has affected not only me but all who knew them. Till date, I still await the odd email or Facebook message from them. Them not being around is a hard truth that we all are still trying to come to terms with. I was fortunate to get to know them better and share some wonderful moments with them.
Growing up in different cities (Mumbai and Pune) we hardly ever met, except for the odd family gathering…they moved to Melbourne and I met them after almost 12 years in 2007. They looked very different from the last time we met, and I am sure I would not recognise them if I ever bumped in to them anywhere else. Both were tall and lanky six footers and looked like regular 20 year olds. That evening we discussed family, our plans for the future, sports and even world politics. Ashish was vociferous about his love for cricket and his support for the Indian cricket team, while Akshay defended his favourite team Manchester United and the bad form they were currently going through. It was an awkward, yet fun evening, and since I was new to Melbourne they promised to include me in their plans.
Christmas 2007, was when we really hit it off and had a whale of a time with family from all over the city who gathered at my brother’s house. The younger members of the family had a singing showdown with the older ones…with Ashish and Akshay leading the youngsters. It was all in good fun, and the laughter and joy shared was the ultimate winner. It was then that they introduced me to their favourite songs ’Forever young’ and ‘Dream catch me’...they sang them like they believed every word of the lyrics (The former is ironically the jingle for the New Zealand tourism advertisement…the country where they did not return from). During this revelry I noticed the sparks flying between Ashish and my sister in law’s cousin. Showing me a good time became their excuse to meet up often after that, but I didn’t mind it…I was having a good time!
Akshay and Ashish Miranda on their parent's 25th wedding anniversary
Ashish always passed his plans by Akshay to see if he could join in. It was evident that they enjoyed each other’s company. Their personalities were starkly contrasting yet they complimented each other. Ashish was overt and animated when expressing his views. Akshay presented his case in a more subdued and controlled manner. Both were extremely intelligent and every conversation with them was stimulating and enjoyable.
I am extremely proud to call them my cousins and must acknowledge that some of their joie de vivre has definitely rubbed off on me. I cherish all the time we spent together and am glad that I got the opportunity to get to know them so well.
Ashish and Akshay wherever you are you should know...that I am jealous of the fact that you'll will stay forever young!
It has been a while since I noted down my frank thoughts here…459 days to be precise! That is a long time I know…what I don’t know is, why it took me so long to get back to writing this. Well what matters is that I am back…and I hope it is for good!
A lot has happened while I was away…relating to me as well as in the world around me. It is perhaps these that have egged me on to pen it all down. The senseless terror attacks in Mumbai…the Indian cricket team beating the Australian team hollow in their tour of India…my recent holiday to north-east India…the birth of my niece…the election of Obama as the future president of the United States…the completion of my studies in Australia…and my return to Mumbai are just a few of the things I need to express my frank thoughts on.
This is en route Cherrapunjee, a small town located in the state of Meghalaya in India
I could start off with any topic…but I think I need a little more time to ponder on where to start. I must confess that I don’t write regularly and hence getting back in to the flow might take a while. So patience is the key when reading my blog!
Since I have been here (in Melbourne) long enough - two months, I thought I am experienced enough to do a city to city comparison, of Mumbai and Melbourne. Please do not take this as expert analysis, or as insights to base your travel plans to these cities on, but, as a personal comparison as I see it. Having lived in both cities, there are things I like and dislike about them and the comparisons made are on the aspects that affect my personal life. Having said that, here goes!
The first thing that any person coming from the Asian subcontinent will notice in Melbourne is the silence on the roads. Drivers here do not blow their vehicle horns unless absolutely necessary! Unlike the Asian subcontinent, where honking is almost customary, here, one “toots” only if they are really disgusted with the way the other person is driving. This is quite awesome because the roads are rather quiet and there are very few or almost no cases of road rage. On the Mumbai roads you sometimes cannot hear yourself think, but in Melbourne it is so quiet you could fall asleep on the steering wheel! The suburbs in Melbourne are far apart and very spread out, however travel by road is fast, they do have traffic jams at peak hours but they clear up fast. In Mumbai though, it is the other way, you sometimes cannot tell where one suburb starts and the finishes, they are all so close to each other, the traffic jams last for hours, sometimes days (if there is monsoon flooding).
In Melbourne, the public transport though clean and comfortable, is very irregular and not well connected. By this I mean the frequency of trains, buses and trams (except within the city), is very low and one needs to factor in a lot of waiting time when travelling and this sometimes doubles the actual travel time. Compare this to Mumbai, where though not as comfortable and clean, the trains and buses are very frequent and extremely well connected. In Melbourne the public transport waits for commuters to get on or off, but in Mumbai you better hop on quick or you will be left behind, although, if you do need help getting on, fellow commuters will gladly offer a helping hand. The commuters in Melbourne dare not come within a foot’s distance, let alone touch a fellow commuter, it is considered offensive; in Mumbai commuters are sometimes so close to each other, that sometimes you can enter a train wearing your own deodorant but leave smelling like another commuter (you are lucky if they are wearing deodorant). Not even the recent train bomb blasts were able to bring the Mumbai trains to a halt, compare that to Melbourne where even a slightest mishap delays the trains for hours. Mumbaikars (as the people in staying in Mumbai are often called) have come to depend on the public transport like a lifeline, rain or shine, they expect them to be running, delays may happen, but they always get you home.
Mumbai is famous for its street food – food one can buy off roadside carts; one can find food in any corner of the city and at any time of the day! If you are looking to grab a quick bite after working a little late in office, there is a possibility that you will not find any, in Melbourne the concept of street food almost doesn’t exist. Don’t get me wrong here, the variety and quality of food available is great, but, it is not as easily available and certainly not at any time. Apart from a few restaurants, only places like McDonalds, Subway and Hungry Jacks are open after nine in the night, and this is not the healthiest option.
Imagine a sea of humanity, people everywhere with almost no place to stand, people coming out from every nook and cranny imaginable, now double it, this is the Mumbai population. It is also the city of extremes; you will see the poor and the rich staying across the wall from each other, the poorest mostly sleep under the stars. It is cheap and expensive at the same time; a person can survive on almost any budget in this city. On the other hand, Melbourne, in comparison has a miniscule population with ample of living space and even the poorest in the city have a roof over their head. The government supports the underprivileged and they can at least have a meal a day, it is a city that is pretty well off.
Well I think I have said enough about these two cities for the moment, if I do notice some more things I will definitely post them.
Australia isn't all that bad! I have been here almost a month now, and am kind of getting used to the place. Before I came here, like any person moving to a new place, had my preconceived notions about how it would be here. I thought the people here would be uptight and unfriendly, I thought the food would be bland and insipid and I thought I would not be able to adjust completely.
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As I sit staring at the computer screen wondering what to write, some random thoughts run through my head...have I nothing to say? Have I nothing to communicate? Has writing a few words become so difficult for me? Am I suffering from writers block? Have I become so addicted to online games that I cannot sit in front of the computer unless there is some animated activity going on? What the hell is wrong with me?
Let me try and answer all these questions and try and figure out what the problem is? I do have stuff to say and do have things to tell
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The delay in writing this post is only because of my laziness and procrastination. I have been busy with work and other stuff but could have made the time to write, but I was plain lazy.
In this period, I have watched a couple of thoughtful and heart wrenching movies. The two I am going to write about, have communalism and terrorism as their backdrop. Both these topics have always intrigued me no end. How can man be so insensitive and brutal to take another human’s life? Does religion teach us revenge or forgiveness
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In a suspected terror attack, 68 people, including some Pakistani nationals, were killed in explosions in two coaches of the Delhi-Attari special train (Samjhauta Express) for Lahore at Deewana near Panipat, about 100 km from Delhi. Several people were also injured in the incident, which the Northern Railway (Indian Railways) said was a clear case of sabotage.
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The recent announcement of Tata Steel buying Corus, the erstwhile British Steel, has indeed made a lot of Indians very proud. There are several reasons for this. The deal cost the Tatas $12.1 billion and has propelled them from the fifty sixth to the fifth position in the steel industry!
This post might seem a bit biased and over the top…but what the hell
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Diamonds or the diamond industry is not all bad. But, whenever something of great value is found, many people lose their lives because of it, and diamond is no exception.
The recently released movie ‘Blood Diamond’, which stars Leonardo DiCaprio, and is set during Sierra Leone’s diamond fuelled civil war, has created a mini public relations crisis for the diamond industry. As per recent media reports A-list celebrities such as Beyoncé Knowles and Jennifer Lopez are part of a multimillion-dollar campaign by the industry to avert this disaster. Knowles and Lopez agreed to wear jewel-encrusted rings on their right hands at last week’s Golden Globe award ceremony in return for the promise from the diamond industry of $10,000 each donated to the African charity of their choice
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Did they find the ‘Weapons of Mass Destruction’ in Iraq? Did they “smoke out” Osama Bin Laden from Afghanistan? Have they restored democracy in Iraq or any other country they have tried to do so? Then what in god’s name making the UN Security Council fall for the United States led imposition of sanctions on Iran’s nuclear enrichment programme, even though they were invited to visit all their nuclear facilities*? (Ironically, the Iranian nuclear programme was started with US help in the 1950s during the cold war) Why are they falling for the same story again?
Speaking in the southwestern provincial capital of Ahvaz, President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad said the Security Council’s resolution of 23 December 2006 was invalid and had left the world body’s reputation in tatters. “You are nobody,” he told the Western powers. Recalling the West’s support for Iraq, then ruled by Saddam Hussein, during its eight year war with Iran in the 1980s, he said: “If all the powers that supported Saddam in his war against Iran were to regroup and confront Iran again, Iranians would deliver a historic slap in their face.” He added that Iran had done everything it could, to prove that its nuclear programme is peaceful, but the West in the name of opposing nuclear weapons, was trying to thwart Iran’s development. “We have tried all legal, wise and logical ways to convince these corrupt and selfish powers,” he said of the West. “Let the world know that from the Iranian nation’s point of view, this resolution has no validity,” Ahmadinejad said. He said the United States was the main power behind the resolution, and warned Washington: “I want you to know that the Iranian nation has humiliated you many times, and it will humiliate you in future
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Comment by reuben
on Melbourne Vs Mumbai
Frank Thoughts
Good question...I thought this post would help me decide, but I havent yet come to any conclusions!
Reuben