September 14th 2010 08:36
We are still in the teenage management topic we have discussed how to manage anger the other time. We have discussed how to manage anger as a teenager such as; (1) taking a fast walk away in order to take away the anger off your mind. (2) Trying to count 1 to 10 before saying a word if someone makes you bitterly angry, and lastly how to stay away form a mob. I hope you have used these methods which have worked out well for many.
This time we are going to discuss gentleness. Gentleness to many is golden, it is seen as the trade used in weaving the fabrics or our everyday lifestyle. Everyone see gentleness as a good thing, but when it comes to the point of practice, it is always very hard.
The dictionaries define gentleness as (1) Mild in temperament or behavior. (2) To be kind or tender. (3) Moderate in action, effect, or degree; not harsh or severe, as we can see then gentleness make us a better man.
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Today I am going to focus my attention on teenagers. As we all know teenage age is the most versatile period in any human life. It is always characterized with short-comings such as strife, depression, anger and even happiness. Knowing how to manage these things brings out the best in you as a teenager or in your ward as a parent or guardian. Today we are going to analyze the best way to manage the teenage age.
Try not to be Angry; there is no need to be bitterly angry with your siblings or parents, we all know that we are not perfect, there must be misunderstanding somehow in our daily endeavors. A writer suggest in his book stating; “try counting 1 to 10 before saying a word if someone makes you angry” trying this method helps you know the right words to say, the right action to take. Some people take this as a joke while others say it is too difficult to do. I have tried this myself and it works. Please give this a try today, it is not a joke, it can work for you even if you are anger addicted. Another method is to take a fast walk away in order to release the energy of anger. You can also refer this article to a friend, it help them whether a teenager or as a parent.
At time anger someone do the unthinkable. It can take kids to the extent of forming a gang or mob. Whichever ways you may think of the word mob it always sound negative. The dictionary define mob as (1) a disorderly crowd of people (2) a loose affiliation of gangster in charge organized criminal activities. (3) An association of criminals. As we can see then a mob consists of people that are not too nice to work with. Some years ago, newspapers report how a lady Christian teacher in Nigeria was brutally murdered by her students because she allegedly threw a copy of their religious book on the floor. Actually the woman “offence” was that she caught a student cheating in the exams hall. Yet some people were able to get the mob out and kill her for another reason.
Do not join a mob for any reason. Talk to right persons if you feel cheated. Try to advice your piers. Shun those who cannot listen to your good advice. Above all, stay away from bad guys.
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Remember we are reaching for the stars, we want to build a olden generation as best as we can, it all begin with you and me. This is brought to you by a redefined writer Michael Richards.
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