Well... it happened. That bastard actually showed up.. LATE! The sold purpose of this meeting in front of the referee was for him to be able to lower his child support. Guess what.. she allowed it. The judgement went from $427 per month to $25 a month. How is this allowed? My son is 5 years old, and ya know what his "biological father" has seen him maybe 3 times and that was over 4 years ago. He likes to say that I hid from him and his family well guess what I wasnt "hiding" I just got sick of being your effin taxi! You want to see your kid why wouldnt you put forth more of an effort? If this referee had any commen sense she would have called him on his bullshit, but since he receives state aid everyone feels sorry for him. Well guess what nobody cared when I struggled for so long, but ya know what I made it. She obviously didnt look through our case file very well because he told her he worked almost 2 years ago, but has been unable to work since. Well HELLO where the fuck is the money from 2 years ago then?? Now we are at this point where I have had to call out for legal help because this sorry ass is ready to just sign off all of his legal rights but ONLY if I wave arrears through court. As far as I am concerned this is going to be the best thing that could possibly happen to me and my family! My husband is who he is, but when it comes to our kids, he is the GREATEST father I have ever seen. He has been there since my son was 3 months old, and never blinked an eye about him not being biologically his. Oh so this gets better... I have to go back to court tomorrow to file a motion in the case with my oldest son because my ex and I went there to amicably close the case, and they ended up coming after me for child support. 1 month later, I get a letter and they are now going after him again! Hello....a little un-organized to say the least. Oh but wait here is the kicker...I go back to court again Wednesday so that my 5 year olds "biological father" and I can sign more papers to get the arrears waved, and he can sign away his rights! Who is in charge of this shit, and why is it so FUCKED!!!???
I am only human. Ive had a hysterectomy at age 30. Ive been through most people my age would never dream of in their lifetime. I have a bi-polar, manic depressive, crazy mother, my dad left town years ago, and has pretty much been out of the picture for years...my opinion, smartest move he probably ever made. Im not made of money, and dont have time to deal with everyone elses bullsh*t when I have plenty of my own. My husband cheats, and I dont know where to go from here. Im not a perfect person... really who is? I just want to have things be normal for more than a few minutes. Am I asking too much?? I have tried to be positive about every damn situation only to have it blow up in my face in one way or another. But ya know what.... I still do it. Im still thinking positivly because.. well really what the hell is the point in just sitting there feeling sorry for yourself? I have a sister addicted to heroin, so life really could be worse. My brother is a drama ass, gossipin ass, jerk off. I have great kids though. I mean really great kids. 14, 5, and 3...all boys. They have their moments, but hello they are kids right? Shit my blog could go on, but I will have much better things to think about after court tomorrow. Get this bs, my middle sons father is taking me to court to lower child support. Thing is .. BASTARD HAS NEVER PAID A DIME to begin with. I text him like lets discuss this before court, my husband wants to adopt him because truthfully he is the one thats been there since he was born. SO .. hes like oh just so ya know im going to petition for visitation right because I have never seen him, and you have been hiding from me. HA HA HA thing is ... I worked at the same place for 12 years.. why not call me there? I have had him over my house, and my moms house... why not stop by there? He was a loser when my middle boy was a baby. I had to cart his ass everywhere, and I got sick of it.. so WHY do I have to make this work.. if you want to see him bad enough why are you waiting until you gotta go to court for child support???!!! Im like whatever sorry your not gonna come in after 5 years and try to be super dad he doesnt know you!! Sooo this asshole tells me that if I wave the child support arrears, he will sign off all his rights and disappear! WHO DOES THAT??!! UGHHHH jerk face! Just wait im sure this will be better tomorrow after court... we shall see!!
September 29th 2010 01:29
So I gave a company 12 years of my life. Did numerous different positions, job titles, any bitch task I was asked to do. Then it happens I get fired. The thing is I understand times are tough, and the economy sucks, but to just cut the string on someone... just like that. It was like ripping off the band-aid. I didnt even make that much money, and the thing is I never complained about it, never even asked for a raise. I didnt care.. I was just happy to have a job. Then I find out they knew for 3 weeks before it happened. I mean over 22 families they just sucker punched. Insurance ripped out from underneath us. I mean we got severance packages, and made sure we were all eligible for unemployement, but I have a family. I supported everyone with my insurance. My 14 year old needs braces, my 5 and 3 year old are due for shots! This could go on and on about what they did to us. We all ranged from 10-16 years there.
September 28th 2010 04:15
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