My own crusty bear
July 21st 2009 23:04
So I've been thinking for the better part of my night - about my personal insecurities...fueled by my friend.
Im usually, a brush it off kinda girl. But lately, this friend is constantly making herself feel better by constantly going on about my flaws - which are just that, MINE - not hers. I know I need to say something, I dont generally have such insecurity...but something has taken ahold in my mind, and I cant shake it. Its a desperate feeling.
I think its really hit home because, Ive started to develop a relationship with a new beau...who, as the world would have it, is this particular friends exboyfriend and good friend.
I just feel like my confidence is being undermined, even though, she says that everything is fine with the way things are going with me and this other friend. I just dont know what to do....time to speak up I guess....
How to approach it? Be direct, and not apologise.... or..... mention it in passing and gloss over....
decisions decisions...
Im usually, a brush it off kinda girl. But lately, this friend is constantly making herself feel better by constantly going on about my flaws - which are just that, MINE - not hers. I know I need to say something, I dont generally have such insecurity...but something has taken ahold in my mind, and I cant shake it. Its a desperate feeling.
I think its really hit home because, Ive started to develop a relationship with a new beau...who, as the world would have it, is this particular friends exboyfriend and good friend.
I just feel like my confidence is being undermined, even though, she says that everything is fine with the way things are going with me and this other friend. I just dont know what to do....time to speak up I guess....
How to approach it? Be direct, and not apologise.... or..... mention it in passing and gloss over....
decisions decisions...
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