My Mother in Law
November 1st 2011 16:29
Good day folks, I know I usually write my crazy life's stories but today I want to tell you about my mother in law...,..
My mother in law is so full of life and will cus you out in a heart beat. Her life has been filled with so much joy and drama with heartach, all that you can imagine. But through all of her lifes up's and downs she has always fought threw.
Well a few years ago we found out that momma had cancer and has had it for a very long time, she did not even know she had it. One day she was not felling very well and we took her to the doctor that is when we found out she has lung cancer. Our hearts dropped so much it was crazy almost unbearable but we prayed and got through.
Those few years passed and momma has been going to kemo & radiology over the years which helped her when it first started a few months ago on one of her visits the doctor advised us she only has about 60 days to live as the cancer has spread, oh we must have died ot was so FREAKING hard especially to my hunny.. We prayed and have had get togethers like every weekend to spend time with her not know when she might leave us. The 60 days has opassed thank you Lord and she was still doing her treaments and weekly lab test. Lately her treatments for about a month now have been making her sick, like not moving around sick we started to get worried and made an appointment to go see the doctor Well 2 weeks later she went in for her normal lab test and treaments and the doctors advised there was nothing else they could do for her the cancer has spread like wildflowers and there is no need to even come to the doctors office any longer unless she just wants co,fort. OMG OMG OMG
Do you know what type of feeling that is like someone just pulled your guts out and there was nothing you can do about it but sit and watch them do it......UGH...After we recieved that information we were on our way back to the house to comfort her and try to be there for her, WELL when we got there the hospital sent HOSPICE there and they were waiting on us ( Im gonna try not to cry telling you all this bear with me ). They were there with books and diffrent things to prepare her for her death. So much pain filled in us it was to overwhelming.
A week has passed and hospice is there 2 time a week checking on her , we have been over to check on her and she seems to be getting weaker and my fiance does not understand what is going on or is not coming to the realization of what is happening and its understandable this is his mom. Last night one of her caregivers pulled me to the side and said she was acting cenial this morning and she is slipping away fast. I got chocked up and didnt say a word, she advised me not to say anything to my fiance let his sister and Aunt tell him as they live with Momma, I agreed with her only because I need to pull myself together to catch him when she leaves us. Here it is today and I havent heard any status but as things go on I will keep you posted as these few day upcoming. My stomach is in nots and it very difficult jumping everytime the phone rings its scary...Keep us in your prays thanks
My mother in law is so full of life and will cus you out in a heart beat. Her life has been filled with so much joy and drama with heartach, all that you can imagine. But through all of her lifes up's and downs she has always fought threw.
Well a few years ago we found out that momma had cancer and has had it for a very long time, she did not even know she had it. One day she was not felling very well and we took her to the doctor that is when we found out she has lung cancer. Our hearts dropped so much it was crazy almost unbearable but we prayed and got through.
Those few years passed and momma has been going to kemo & radiology over the years which helped her when it first started a few months ago on one of her visits the doctor advised us she only has about 60 days to live as the cancer has spread, oh we must have died ot was so FREAKING hard especially to my hunny.. We prayed and have had get togethers like every weekend to spend time with her not know when she might leave us. The 60 days has opassed thank you Lord and she was still doing her treaments and weekly lab test. Lately her treatments for about a month now have been making her sick, like not moving around sick we started to get worried and made an appointment to go see the doctor Well 2 weeks later she went in for her normal lab test and treaments and the doctors advised there was nothing else they could do for her the cancer has spread like wildflowers and there is no need to even come to the doctors office any longer unless she just wants co,fort. OMG OMG OMG
Do you know what type of feeling that is like someone just pulled your guts out and there was nothing you can do about it but sit and watch them do it......UGH...After we recieved that information we were on our way back to the house to comfort her and try to be there for her, WELL when we got there the hospital sent HOSPICE there and they were waiting on us ( Im gonna try not to cry telling you all this bear with me ). They were there with books and diffrent things to prepare her for her death. So much pain filled in us it was to overwhelming.
A week has passed and hospice is there 2 time a week checking on her , we have been over to check on her and she seems to be getting weaker and my fiance does not understand what is going on or is not coming to the realization of what is happening and its understandable this is his mom. Last night one of her caregivers pulled me to the side and said she was acting cenial this morning and she is slipping away fast. I got chocked up and didnt say a word, she advised me not to say anything to my fiance let his sister and Aunt tell him as they live with Momma, I agreed with her only because I need to pull myself together to catch him when she leaves us. Here it is today and I havent heard any status but as things go on I will keep you posted as these few day upcoming. My stomach is in nots and it very difficult jumping everytime the phone rings its scary...Keep us in your prays thanks
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