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It takes so long to heal after you've been hurt.
No matter how many guys romance you and do the things you wish your ex did, you just feel an empty dullness lurching in our stomach from within. Its just not the same, you haven't fully recovered yet.
The anger you feel slowly diminishes away, you get over it, he's with someone else who he loves so much more than you, who he treats much better, You feel distraught, it just built up within.. I don't know, I left all my anger in a tiny corner of my mind and somehow tonight its just overfilled and exploded. I do make a big deal out of tiny things, but I just kept thinking of all the things we did together that brought so much happiness, and yet, reality shows that underneath surfaced no meaning to it at all.
isn't it such a turn off when guys try too hard?
its just ugh.
everything i thought i wanted in a guy is presented to me. Someone full of surprises, takes you out to nice places to eat, thinks of you all day, sticks to his word, does things out of niceness.. But its just too much too soon..
We all want something we don't have.. thats what makes us happy.. when it dangles in front of us for some time, we try to catch it for a while and when we do, we're as happiest as can be. Its the chase. We all love the chase admit it or not.
when guys try too hard its just a turn off. it devalues them.. well i feel that way.. its hard to appreciate the things they do for you, i think the only real way of truly appreciating it is if you have to work for it.
=) oh and a note.. and a small update.. guys never change.. people never change.. no matter how hard you try to change them.
September 17th 2006 04:21
amazing how women reformed their status.. No longer are men GOD, but EQUALS!
There might be some things about your partner that really tick you off that you just wished they could change! Minor problems such as not washing the dishes, not putting the toilet seat back down or just general bad habits.
In Sex and the City, Charlotte had a 'teabag situation' problem with Harry who had just moved in, he would leave teabags around the house and she would have to pick up after him.. Miranda had a problem with Steve's dirty laundry that had 'skidmarks' that she had to clean up after him.. and yet, they handled their problems well and in the end potentially are the ideal men for them
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You'd ponder throughout your relationship wondering why things aren't the way you'd expect them to be.. Everything is perfect except for a few minor things that causes the hugest arguments.. you never seem to think that things don't work out because you both just weren't meant to be.
Its so upsetting and you feel as though you'll never meet anyone quite like them again.. everything reminds you of them
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i can't write this blog anymore..
all the problems i've had in my relationships was due to the fact that i thought too much and overanalysed everything
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I had the highest expectations of a guy, like any other girl who'd daydream about her knight in shining armour to the rescue, I would remain waiting for that very day, throwing out every other uneligible guy out of the way.. I would wait for Romeo, for Christian from Moulin Rouge, Noah from the Notebook, the prince from Ever After, Jack from Titanic, Heath Ledger's character from A Knight's tale... the list goes on..
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I found this post my friend wrote to me about 2 years ago, it presents an interesting perspective of what its like to be a 'nice guy' :
It’s amazing that dickheads can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are dickheads at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. It's a charade
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can you really count the things you do for each other in a relationship?
I often find that many people ask you what your partner does for you, and uses that as a measurement of how much they think your partner may love you
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From a contemporary view on relationships, we tend to devalue sex - rather it being saved for after marriage, it is common for most modern-day couples to be practising sex.
In the 50's and earlier, your most prized posession was your virginity.. contrasted to the 60's where society became more sexually aware and active.. The abortion act was then passed in 1967 and in 1993 rights to medical confidentiality were given to under 16's - meaning contraception without parental consent
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Comment by mlxo
on when guys try too hard