Mike Cullen

Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA


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Quite frankly, if you had told me that I could stop smoking easily, with no effort, no cravings, no withdrawal symptoms nor fluctuating moods and tantrums, I'd have kicked you in the shins and buried you somewhere near Jimmy Hoffa.

I smoked for 20 years. Not something I'm ashamed of or something I am proud of. It is a fact. From the time I was 17 I was addicted to nicotine, each year smoking more than the year before. If you asked me, I enjoyed it. I wasn't hooked, it was a habit I loved. I was good at saying that, even managed to do say it with a straight face. It was a lie. From the beginning I hated it. The taste, the burn, the acrid smoke, the breathlessness. Not to mention the smell although to be honest I couldn't smell it. I had no sense of smell left. I guess I probably owe a huge apology to all those people who have been trapped beside me on trains or in classrooms or elevators over the last 20 years for the stench of stale smoke I carried with me wherever I went.

Over the past few months I've at least been honest enough
with myself to admit, I hate smoking. The cost is ridiculous, the taste is not anything you're ever going to buy in a bottle and sprinkle on your evening ice cream. I seemed incapable of climbing stairs or walking for any length of time for that matter.

I sat at home and I whinged and complained about how "hard' it was to quit, without actually trying to do so. In October 2010 I was loaned a book by a friend of mine, written by a UK author named Allen Carr. I had never heard of him or his "Easyway to Stop Smoking". Frankly I agreed to read the book purely to be able to say "see, I told you it was a con. Smoking is never easy to quit." About 20 pages from the end I conveniently lost the book and continued smoking.

Easyway to Stop Smoking Allen Carr
The Book That Changed My Life


In June 2011 I was cleaning my room and came across the book, sitting proudly on the book shelf - so much for having lost it - and decided to give it another go. If nothing else it would make a decent blog about how gullible people were and how awful people were who cashed in on the desperate and the addicted.

So I read it. It is a very easy book to read, and contains a lot of information we've all heard a million times before, but what caught my attention was that the author truly believed what he had written. Of course it wasn't going to work for me, but he seemed to believe it.

As I read the last pages of the book I did as instructed and smoked my last cigarette, fully expecting to go and buy another packet within the hour. Turns out, that didn't happen.

Today has been 16 days since I stopped smoking. 16 packets of Dunhill Blue I haven't purchased, 400 cigarettes un-smoked and $280 saved. I keep waiting for the cravings and horrific withdrawal symptom's to start, but they seem nowhere to be found.

If I hadn't experienced it myself I wouldn't believe it. Actually I would outright call anyone who claimed to have stopped smoking "effortlessly and instantly" a bloody liar. But that is exactly how I did it.

Yes there were withdrawal symptoms, of course there were, but quite frankly they were almost non-existent. A slight tension in my chest and a slight feeling of panic for a couple of hours. Otherwise nothing.

Do I miss them? Not in the slightest. Do I miss that one after dinner or that first one in the morning over coffee? No.

One thing I took from the book was that all of us are born Non-Smokers, none of us are born "needing" a cigarette to wrap up a meal, handle stress, handle boredom or make a social occasion better. All of us are born perfect non-smokers and each of us who develop the addiction of smoking do so only after much hard work and many cigarettes.

The other thing I took from the book was the absolute ridiculousness of replacing nicotine while quitting. I've lost count of the amount of patches I've bought, gum I've chewed, lozenges I've sucked, and tablets I've taken in an attempt to get rid of cigarettes. I've paid out hundreds of dollars for hypnosis, on cassettes - wow that ages me instantly - NLP and god only knows what else I've done in an attempt to quit smoking. If I'd found that book 20 years ago it would have saved me a lot of time and money.

Recently I had to go to the doctor about an ear infection. While there he did his usual "smoking is bad m'kay" routine and I mentioned that I was reading the Allen Carr book and I was going to give that a shot. He ignored me outright and told me next time I went to see him he would give me a prescription for NRT. When I did go to see him again - for more antibiotics - he didn't mention smoking at all. Probably cause I'd stopped for over a week by that point. It's the first time in the 5 years I've been going to see him he hasn't mentioned it.

Can I guarantee Allen Carr's Easyway to Stop Smoking will work for you? Nope, I can't but the Allen Carr clinics do offer a money back guarantee and boast a 90% success rate.

I can't recommend Allen Carr's Easyway To Srop Smoking highly enough for those who read this post and are wanting to quit smoking. Give it a try, there are books, DVDs, clinics all over the world, there are facebook groups and twitter pages. Look it up and give it a shot.
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Black Swan (2010)

January 22nd 2011 05:51
Black Swan Natalie Portman Mila Kunis
Black Swan Promotional Poster - all images sourced from google.


Natalie Portman stars in this psychological thriller as Nina Sayer, a New York Ballerina on the verge of stardom. Cast in the pivotal role of the White and Black Swans of Swan Lake, Nina's gradual mental breakdown mirrors the story line of Black Swan.

Directed by Darren Aronofsky and written by Mark Heyman, Andres Heinz and John J McLaughlin, Black Swan is one of those rare films that warrants a second trip to the cinema to see it again.

Black Swan Natalie Portman Mila Kunis
Natalie Portman in the film Black Swan


There are currently dozens of reviews of this film on Orble and also filling cyberspace and the storyline is now well known, so I have no intention of rehashing what other reviewers have already said of the films premise.

A lot of the reviews I've seen today wax lyrical on the beauty, the haunting grainy imaginary and the stunning dance sequences. As I've looked at each review, reading what the reviewer felt I found proof of a comment I'd made to a friend of mine earlier today when we were discussing the film.

Black Swan is a choose your own adventure style film. Everyone sees it differently, everyone seems to take their own idea of what it was about and everyone seems to have seen a different film.

Natalie Portman is brilliant as the fragile Nina, disconnected from herself and her emotions, torn between her dream of perfection and those around her. But the film - typical of Aronofsky's previous features - left more questions than it provided answers.

As a study in the mental collapse of a promising young star, the film is haunting and brilliantly portrayed. But for me the realisation that we watch the film completely through Nina's eyes left me wondering just how much of the film we watched actually happened to the character, and how much of it is simply the manifestations of her own mental collapse.

Lily (Mila Kunis) is two extremes; innocent, joyful, happy, free and a conniving, backstabbing and two faced personification of the white swans evil twin. Thomas (Vincent Cassel) is the artistic director consumed by his passion with the arts, yet stereotypical in the position of the director taking sexual advantage of his young starlet. Erica (Barbara Hershey) as the domineering stage mother, wrapping her daughter in guilt and ownership, yet crying as she paints portrait after portrait of her daughter as a sad and isolated young lady.

There are several keys in the film that have led me to my perception of this film as being 90% Nina's delusions and 10% "reality" and it's a film I'll have to go and see a second time at the movies.

Black Swan is a masterpiece of psychological examination. Nina dreams of being a star, to the point that she steals innocent belongings from Beth's (Winona Ryder) dressing room.

My only fault with this film - and it will probably get me hung, drawn and quartered) is Natalie Portman. While her performance is beyond brilliant - and pretty much unbeatable now that the Awards season is here - I felt she was too old to play Nina. Throughout the film there are constant references to the life of a balllerina being bright, burning fast and burning out before they hit 30. For Nina to be only getting her shot at stardom when others dancers are "over the hill" made me question throughout the film whether a younger actress would have been more suitable.

This isn't a dig at Portman or her multi-layered, hauntingly brilliant performance. She was absolutely amazing as Nina. But I just couldn't get past the fact she was at the age the films says is the death of the ballerina's career, not the age of the young, desperate startlet chasing her dream.

Aronofsky rarely puts a foot wrong on his films. They are always haunting - I still need a stiff drink whenever I think about Requiem for a Dream - and his direction of Black Swan is awe-inspiring. The red herrings scattered throughout the film, the misdirections and the multiple perceptions of the audience at the end shows a true master in his element.

Black Swan is much more then the typical Hollywood cookie cutter movie we are used to seeing come out of the factory of dreams. It is a multi-layered, haunting film, that leaves the audience thinking after it is over and if you're anything like me, leaves you wondering if you should see it again to see if it changes your perception of the whole thing being Nina's delusions.

I can't recommend this film highly enough, it's not light, it's not fluffy and it's not one you'd go and see if you're after a laugh, but it's well worth the time it takes to watch it. For the first time in a long time I walked out of the cinema satisfied and yet hungry to go on the journey a second time.
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Upcoming Reviews

November 4th 2010 11:42
It's been a mad world here at Film Mage of late. A new day job, and a series of exhausted weekends and evenings have left it a while between posts.

Coming up in the next couple of weeks I've got a few reviews for some terrific - and a couple of terrible - movies, as well as a new monthly feature to go with the already existing Top 5 Movies that is also going to be getting a revamp.

So stick around, there's lots to come and don't forget to leave me some comment and voting love when the new features come out.

See you Sunday
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Circe Du Freak: The Vampires Assistant


Circe Du Freak: The Vampires Assistant is based on the novels by Darren Shan, tell the story of Darren Shan (Chris Massoglia), a 16 year old spider fanatic, who after attending the Circe Du Freak proceeds to steal Larten Crepsley's (John C Reilly) spider


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Hades Daughter Sara Douglass The Troy Game


Deserted by lover Thesus, Ariadne, Mistress of the Labyrinth swears vengence on her lover and her sister, by returning the evil Minotaur from the grip of death. Using the dark craft gifted to her by the Minotaur Aridane begins the unwinding of the Agean Labyrinths that protect the ancient world from evil, before fleeing to a new world. There's one catch. In exchange for the gift of the dark craft Ariadne agrees that should she or any of her daughter-heirs try to re-establish the Game, they will forever belong to the Minotaur


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Stay Positive & Find Your New Job

September 27th 2010 07:27
job hunting unemployed staying motivated positive
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With a national unemployment rate of 5.3% in July 2010, the Australian economy showed signs of a slight slowdown. For the 631,800 Australians currently unemployed and searching for a fulltime position, this comes as no surprise


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Zombieland (2009)

September 21st 2010 03:52
Zombieland Jesse Eisenberg Woody Harrelson Abigal Breslin Emma Stone


Written by Rhett Reese and Paul Wernick, and directed by Reuben Fleishcer, Zombieland tells the story of 4 survivors of a Zombie apocalypse travelling across America to reach California and the fabled Pacific Playlands, the only place in the world reported to be Zombie free


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Finding Nemo (2003)

September 18th 2010 09:52
Finding Nemo Ellen DeGeneres Willem Defoe


In 2003, an animated film swept the world, winning an Academy Award for Best Animated Feature and earning $867,893,978 (USD) Source at box offices around the world


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Peace in Puzzles

September 17th 2010 04:25
Peace In Puzzles RAD Adoption
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I thought some of the readers here at Psychology of Life may be interested in a blog I follow. Here is the profile from Peace in Puzzles


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Comment by Mike Cullen
on Cirque Du Freak: The Vampires Assistant (2009)

November 1st 2010 09:47
I can't stand Willem DeFoe at the best of times. I was glad he was only in one scene lol.

John C Reilly was so so. He's a good actor but he didn't really seem to care all that much in the role. I think the young youngs were the best.

It's a shame the film didn't do better, I doubt they'll bother with a sequel. I will definitely check out the books.

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Comment by Mike Cullen
on Morgan Freeman's Top 5 Films

September 27th 2010 06:19
The Shawshank Redemption is by far and away one of my favourite movies of all time. Morgan was brilliant in it.

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Comment by Mike Cullen
on A Single Man (2009)

September 15th 2010 07:11
Thanks Jason, I appreciate that. The film was wonderful. Just a tip, if you're even feeling slightly blue, wait lol.

Nicholas Hoult is lovely in the movie. He plays his character well and with a lot of depth. I still can't figure out if he was in love with George or not, but I like to think he was.

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Sounds a little A Star Is Born with the gender roles reversed. I find Paltrow sort of irritating to be honest but I have liked a couple of her films. Might be worth a check out.

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Comment by Mike Cullen
on Trains in Movies - My Top 5

September 13th 2010 05:14
Not much going on in the way of Gossip at the moment is there? I have an idea, I was going to post it in my own but I think it might work and be a bit of fun.

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Comment by Mike Cullen
on Trains in Movies - My Top 5

September 12th 2010 13:58
Great post Jason. I think the last movie I watched that involved train travel was a BBC remake of the 4:50 from Paddington.

*re-reads post*

*wanders off trying to figure out what I'll write*

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Comment by Mike Cullen
on The Other Boleyn Girl (2008)

September 12th 2010 02:41
Thanks Deni,

I really appreciate your comment. It was a shame really, I though the film had such a great premise.

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Thanks all, I'm sure Jason can handle the high brow stuff and I'll be more than in my element writing about fart jokes and cream pies to the face

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No idea what I'll be posting in here yet, but I'll figure it out. And George Clooney, well I am going up in the world.


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Comment by Mike Cullen
on Slaying Procrastination

July 28th 2010 04:38
Hi Lara, no kidding. Nothing like being told by someone in their first job you're over the hill. I was so pleased with that I went out and bought a Walking Stick immeadiately lol.

I am getting so good at procrastination recently I don't even know I'm doing it. I guess being unemployed and having nothing but time I justify it to myself with "oh I can do it later." The technique really helped me to get the ball rolling again.

At the moment I'm having difficulty finding the energy to do even the most basic things. But it's getting better.

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