pieceofmymindSaving my blog...
November 8th 2007 01:38
this post is to save the blog that I dedicated to my grandmother's memory. It has been months since she passed, actually almost six, and it seems like just yesterday when I spoke with her last. I am guessing that this will change, one day, but that day isn't today. The part that sucks is that I put off so many things while I was lost in grief, that by the time I could cope a little better I was like "lost in the sauce of life".
I am sure that in the future, hopefully the very near future, I will be able to look back on all these moments and remember how hard it was. If anyone is reading this and you have just lost a loved one, or you are getting ready to lose a loved one, I urge you to go and visit. Make that phone call. Even a short visit, just a stop by the house to see them. I can't tell you how many times this haunts me when I reflect on the times I could have and didn't.
Today, I thought about something that I had wanted to tell my grandmother. It was weird because at first I remembered it, and then I realized that I would never have the opportunity to do so. Someting else...I have a birthday card I bought for her. I keep it with all of the things I have to remember her by. Guess why I still have it? Well, when it was her birthday, we were out and it got late - I didn't have time to stop by. Don't let that happen to you; you will regret it.
I am sure that in the future, hopefully the very near future, I will be able to look back on all these moments and remember how hard it was. If anyone is reading this and you have just lost a loved one, or you are getting ready to lose a loved one, I urge you to go and visit. Make that phone call. Even a short visit, just a stop by the house to see them. I can't tell you how many times this haunts me when I reflect on the times I could have and didn't.
Today, I thought about something that I had wanted to tell my grandmother. It was weird because at first I remembered it, and then I realized that I would never have the opportunity to do so. Someting else...I have a birthday card I bought for her. I keep it with all of the things I have to remember her by. Guess why I still have it? Well, when it was her birthday, we were out and it got late - I didn't have time to stop by. Don't let that happen to you; you will regret it.
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