Madeline Sargent

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DDD- Designated Drunk Driver

April 8th 2010 01:37
Last night I was watching 'How I Met Your Mother', and a scene where Ted is boasting about being the designated drunk driver got me thinking about a suggestion that was made to me recently. It goes a little something like this: Every person in a vehicle with someone who is found to be over the legal BAC limit should be held equally responsible in the eyes of the law. Therefore, if the driver receives a 12 month driving ban, then their passengers do also. It’s a massive leap I know, but just hear me out.

I am 23 years of age and therefore fit into the category of people in Australia most likely to get behind the wheel drunk. What’s more, according to statistics if I were a 23 old male, I would be almost a sure thing to drink drive. Interesting to note that Tasmanian men are driving drunk a lot – boredom perhaps? Go do some hiking or something. So as a 23 year old female who attends functions with alcohol most weekends, I have witnessed quite a number of incidents of drink driving among my other wise very sensible friends. The years since my 18th birthday are scattered with memories of drink driving incidents and tragedies. Everyone my age knows someone that has been affected by drink driving; and my conclusion is: the decision to drink drive is very rarely made alone. Here is how it usually plays out. There is almost always a group of people who need to get somewhere but no one wants to drive. In fact, often there is more than 1 car load of people, but if you’re breaking the law anyway what difference is a bit of overcrowding going to make? And while we’re at it, seatbelts! Please - who needs them? Eventually 1 person cracks under the pressure or is convinced by the group of being the closest the sobriety and offers to get behind the wheel. This person is regarded as the hero. For this person, losing your license is the best case scenario. Killing yourself, someone in the car or another motorist is obviously the worst. For the passengers, being killed is something to consider, but very rarely is, and that’s it! All other possible consequences are none of their concern; not because they were responsible enough to catch a taxi. They were more than happy to partake in the drink driving, but were too afraid of the consequences to volunteer themselves as driver.

I think a lot of people consider drink drivers to be of a certain demographic or type of person. I can guarantee that nearly every person aged 18-24 has been involved in or witnessed the organisation of a drink driving expedition, which is no surprise. But that is not where it ends. The highest proportions of daily drinkers in Australia are those over 60, and I just know that my Nana car pools everywhere. I don’t dare to think that my cute, knitting clothes for the Red Cross in her spare time Nana is doing beer bongs at bowls and then getting behind the wheel, but nevertheless I think that it is more than possible the oldies and drinking simply to pass time and then driving without much consideration of their BAC. It would seem that drink driving is on for young and old, but let’s not forget that there is a generation in the middle somewhere that is not completely faultless. A whopping 52% of men aged 35-54 have admitted to driving over the limit, and taking alternate routes in order to avoid booze buses. The TAC and the Police must be pulling their hair out wondering how on earth to curb drink driving. Stronger penalties for everyone, I say!

I personally believe that my proposed equal responsibility law should be all encompassing. Everyone over the age of 18 should be slapped with the same penalty as a drunk driver. It has been pointed out to me however, that there are some obvious flaws. Certainly, a parent caught drink driving with their unsuspecting child and friend is obviously a case where the crime would not fit the punishment. Still, I’m sticking to my guns. I envision society’s outlook on drink driving to shift over time. Eventually a child’s friend in such a situation would feel comfortable asking the parent if they had been drinking; and on the flip side, the adult would rethink that third glass of wine knowing that they could potentially relegate themselves and 2 innocents to the bicycle lanes for the next year.

I have been accused many times in my life of being idealistic and can see that my solution, or rather my friend’s solution to the drink driving problem probably creeps into that familiar idealistic territory. Victoria however is on its way to its worst road toll in 5 years, so I am not ready to dismiss the idea totally. Perhaps the compromise starts with P Platers. I am not condoning drink driving by anyone, but it is obvious that a lack of experience on the roads combined with alcohol contributes to the high frequency of P Plater drink driving incidents and tragedies. Let us therefore impose an equal responsibility law solely on these drivers and their passengers, to begin with. It might not cure P Platers of drink driving, but then again it might? I know that it would make me more conscious a driver’s level of sobriety.

The old adage ‘All for one and one for all’ just doesn’t have the same ring to it when it’s ‘All for one and one for all – except if you get caught by the police, then you are on your own’. Does it?
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Gen X, Gen Y, Gen...eralisations!

April 7th 2010 13:46
I read a power point presentation today titled ‘How to cope with Gen Yers in the workplace’. This presentation gives helpful tips to would be Gen Y employers such as ‘Capitalise on their skills by making them your work places I.T champions.’ I, myself am a Gen Yer and can tell you now that the best I could do to fix an I.T problem is press the reset button and cross my fingers. Mostly though, the idea that such a presentation needs to exist has really upset my day. I can assure you that we Gen Yers are not aliens and we are certainly not some kind disease that needs to be ‘coped’ with. More importantly, I am my own person and can not be lumped into a massive group of people purely because I am of a similar age.

I am starting the get the distinct impression that demographic characterization is morphing into a bad TV family drama. In fact, when looking at the age groupings for each generation – Baby Boombers, 1946 – 1964, Generation X – 1965 – 1980 and the infamous Generation Y – 1981 – 1991 it fits snuggly into a parent (possibly divorced), middle child and youngest child family situation.

My primary concern here is that this generational TV family is becoming more and more dysfunctional and less able to resolve their differences. If you were to believe the characteristics that define each generation, a standard family discussion would play out something like this:

Generation Y: What’s for dinner?
Baby Boomers: We are having meat and vegetables. It is a meal that is sensible, practical and reliable. Oh and did I mention that it is healthy, you are starting to look seriously obese my little Gen Y munchkin
Generation X: I am not happy with meat and vegetables. It’s not what I want…
Generation Y: You are never happy Gen X. I want dinner now and if I don’t get it now I will be seriously frustrated.
Baby Boomer: Don’t you dare talk to me like that Gen Y!
Gen Y: I will speak to you however I like. I have no respect for authority in the home or in the work place, and speaking of, I have decided to quit my job and find a new job that better enables me to spend more time surfing the net and texting.
Gen X: Why does no one ever listen to me? I said I don’t want meat and vegetables for dinner… Am I invisible? It’s all about Gen Y, Gen Y, Gen Y!
Baby Boomer: I feel so conflicted Gen Y. On the one hand I taught you to express yourself emotionally and pursue happiness, especially if that means living at home forever. On the other hand, you show no loyalty to your employer, you are slack and take your good graces for granted. A long term job equals wealth and security.
Gen X: Not anymore Baby Boomer. I know economic instability better than anyone. Seeing as no one is listening to me I’m going to make my own dinner and eat it in my room. I like to be independent because I am the first to grow up in a duel income home and am therefore a loner.
Gen Y: whatevs’ C U tmrw.
Baby Boomer: Gen Y, dinner is ready. Please stop texting on that damn phone and turn off the TV.
Gen Y: I am checking my facebook on my blackberry, not texting, and the TV is staying on. I am brilliant at multi tasking and am only partial paying attention to everything that I am doing.

The little skit above is the sum of my research on each generation. Baby Boomers are the parents. They are a force to be reckoned if only because of the sheer numbers of them. They are near retirement and have spoilt their Gen Yers rotten. Baby Boomers have made a sport out of criticizing the younger generations, so much so that if the Baby Boomers possessed the entrepreneurial skills of Gen X and Gen Y, they could be challenging the AFL as the number one sport in the country. Alas, apparently no Baby Boomers are resourceful enough for such an undertaking.

There is very little that I can report on Gen X, because they are literally the middle child of the generational family. They are described as the boring generation, the invisible generation, baby busters, NIKES – which is a neat little acronym for No Income Kids with an Education. Even the term Gen X itself denotes unimportance. I am no mathematician, but I believe X to be an unknown value in mathematical equations. Unknown!! Worst of all, Gen X are too pragmatic and realistic to be serious consumers, and therefore not even marketers who tend to be fairly unselective care about them.

Come on down Gen Y. The most infamous generation thus far. As the youngest child in the family, Gen Yers (or the Millennial’s which is the much cooler Gen Y label); have witnessed the mistakes of their older generational siblings and are taking a very different approach. As both a Millennial and the youngest child in my real family, I can attest to learning how not to address topics such as curfews, drinking, and driving in cars with P Platers from my older brother. A note for any only children out there who don’t have older siblings to learn from - Cursing, raising your voice, slamming doors and starting any sentence with ‘You are too old to understand’ will not endear your parents to your cause. We Gen Yers are the worst, aren’t we? We are bored, obese, lacking basic English, Math and critical thinking. We hate authority and the spokespeople of our generation are brilliant minds such as Paris Hilton, Lindsey Lohan and our very own home grown Gen Y idol Corey Worthington… Ah, what a babe!

After all of my research on this topic, I am left with so many questions… Do we honestly think that we can box millions and millions of people into tidy groups based on a few sweeping generalizations? Has demographic characterization dehumanized generations to such an extent that we can be a mean as we like because we no longer feel that we are talking about real people?

I am fed up, and given that I am apparently just 1 person in a sea of millions of people exactly like me, I can only assume that there are a hell of a lot of people who want the generational animosity to end as well!
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Gen Y Versus The Rest

April 7th 2010 13:41
My name is Madeline Sargent and I am seriously opinionated (please refer to my 1st blog 'The Perils of Being Highy Opinionated' for a more indepth look at my personality). I am a 23 year old female and am therefore a member of Generation Y. Gen Yers are the medias favourite topic to report on, more often than not in a negative light. There are however very few Gen Yers in the media giving us a voice - Hence the name of my blog. I don't dare to assume that my thoughts on topics are the same as everyone in my generation, but I am a Generation Yer and I want to have my say.
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