Love Costs
January 8th 2007 22:22
It is very devastated to a woman when her very personal belonging such as her purse was stolen. The reason is not the high cost of her purse but she has lost the valuable items inside. Some of these items are not replaceable. It takes time to replace items such as credit cards, ID card, along with other things. However, items such as pictures represent her past can never be able to restore. A woman's purse contains all of her necessities. Losing it is as part of herself is lost.
Love costs so much when you put all your hopes and future into it. If you place all your emotions into one person, you also will feel devastated when you lost that person as losing your lifetime investment. However, if you restraint yourself from putting out your real feelings then it would not be a truthful relationship. When you love someone, you would hope that the one you love would stay with you until you catch your last breath. What happens when your loved one could no longer be with you? Will you be completely lost?
Everything has its prize. When you wear the wedding band on your finger, you are bound to the cost of it. You are bound to many responsibilities; one of them is taking care of your spouse when sickness occurs. The responsibility applies to any kind of unfortunate hardship that you share with your spouse.
Many people choose to have many relationships or they might not get serious to any of the relationship so they would not get hurt as much. As long as you don't put all your valuable items in one place, then you don't feel as bad when you lost it. From my own experience, I have seen this type of individual whom does not want to express his feelings. He is someone that had been experiencing the lost and rejection from his loved ones not once but many times during his life. All the emotional scars were engraved deeply all over his face.
Love has its downside as well as its upside. Love is like gambling. You have two options – you either join other people at the table or you just leave. However, if you don't take the risk, you would never find out. Sitting at the gambling table, you lay down your bet, and wait for the surprise. You might lose the bet but at least you knew that you have tried. If you think it is too risky and you gave up your chance, you would lose the only chance you have and that chance might have cost you your happiness.
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