life unlike..
May 13th 2008 21:12
I have finished this post as I start to write this paragraph. I am listening to a Beatles song (Act Naturally, for those playing at home) and it has inspired to make the following disclaimer: The following post may lead you to believe the author is sad and lonely.
If life was like 'Made of Honour' the movie, I wouldn't be typing this as a single man.
Now I haven't see the movie, and have no intentions to. You see, movies like 'Made of Honour' always end in the nice guy, the hero, getting the girl over the incumbent boyfriend, the villain.
I alluded to the fact that I am single, not only in this post, and I am sure you will grow tired of hearing it in the future!
I had a lovely friend, who in my books is what I look for in a girlfriend.
Now here is the important thing, I had a crush on her when I first saw her. We didn't see each other a lot so I never bothered making a huge effort. No regrets there. As I got older we saw each other more, talked more.
Untill this year I considered her a friend, oh and by the way, its worth noting not only have I thought all along she would make a good girlfriend, friends have thought we would make a good couple too.
Time goes on all of a sudden I have this feeling I should bite the bullet and let her know how I feel.
Well seeing as though 'the universe hates us' (shanahan 2008(evidence of my lack of academic knowledge in quoting)) my movie fairytale ended in a "I don't feel the same way".
Lesson of the story is a tough one to justify. I want to say, be true to your feelings, but as far as you have read it hasn't been a happy adventure. I knew it would be hard!
But it was expected. And as friends I feel we are now closer. Now that we both know how we feel, I guess.
So I am going to choose the lesson of the day as, be honest with those close to you.
I may have lost an ideal girlfriend but I did gain a life long friend I can always count on.
End post for general public
Start soppy acknowledge.
So jasmin, thank you for being honest and trustworthy, you are a huge influence to how I go about my day.
If life was like 'Made of Honour' the movie, I wouldn't be typing this as a single man.
Now I haven't see the movie, and have no intentions to. You see, movies like 'Made of Honour' always end in the nice guy, the hero, getting the girl over the incumbent boyfriend, the villain.
I alluded to the fact that I am single, not only in this post, and I am sure you will grow tired of hearing it in the future!
I had a lovely friend, who in my books is what I look for in a girlfriend.
Now here is the important thing, I had a crush on her when I first saw her. We didn't see each other a lot so I never bothered making a huge effort. No regrets there. As I got older we saw each other more, talked more.
Untill this year I considered her a friend, oh and by the way, its worth noting not only have I thought all along she would make a good girlfriend, friends have thought we would make a good couple too.
Time goes on all of a sudden I have this feeling I should bite the bullet and let her know how I feel.
Well seeing as though 'the universe hates us' (shanahan 2008(evidence of my lack of academic knowledge in quoting)) my movie fairytale ended in a "I don't feel the same way".
Lesson of the story is a tough one to justify. I want to say, be true to your feelings, but as far as you have read it hasn't been a happy adventure. I knew it would be hard!
But it was expected. And as friends I feel we are now closer. Now that we both know how we feel, I guess.
So I am going to choose the lesson of the day as, be honest with those close to you.
I may have lost an ideal girlfriend but I did gain a life long friend I can always count on.
End post for general public
Start soppy acknowledge.
So jasmin, thank you for being honest and trustworthy, you are a huge influence to how I go about my day.
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Comment by Ellis Currer Bell
Australia Day 2008
Computer Journal
who is this jasmin chick. she sounds like a bit of a bitch i hate that whole "i dont feel the same" routine. i mean she must of had some idea about how you felt.
but im sorry i must pull you up on one thing. i too have made teh mistake in thinking that certin people would make idea boyfriends based on my feelings and certain criteria. noty only has this placed unbelievable pressure on the guy but it has made me miss, like really miss, amazing guys who were right there all along (wow im so full of cliches tonight!) so while you may feel a certain way locating someone as idea must put alot of pressure.
still think this jasmin girl is a bitch!
good luck slacko