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"Yet I find, yet I find repeating in my head...if I can't be my own...I'd feel better dead." Nutshell, Alice in Chains

Letting Go

December 24th 2006 06:42
Let her go. Let her become HERSELF.

Who she is meant to be, who she seeks to be.
Let her climb mountains without fear. Let her climb mountains without YOUR fear.

Go away from her, believe in her. Watch her petals bloom in a brilliant display.
Trust in yourself,

Trust what you have accomplished within her mind, her heart and her soul.

Accept no excuses for failure. Her failure. Not YOUR failure.

Believe in her by believing in YOU.

Trust. Pray. Accept. Let go.

Let her go.



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Comment by Lilla

December 24th 2006 08:02
Voices,

I loved these words... it is said that if you would like to know how much you have learned about love in life, then you should ask yourself how much you have learned to let go... if you love something or someone, then you must... or you will never know for sure... for me it is the only way to truth and freedom....

Merry Christmas to you and yours...
Lilla

Comment by The Voices in my Head

December 24th 2006 13:38
Lilla,
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. I am a mother of a teenaged daughter, about to turn 15. I am unreasonably scared to see her make her way into the world. She has a rare sense of innocence and gullibleness about her that will cause her to be eaten alive. I have to let go of my fears so that she can learn for herself who to trust. The single most difficult thing I have ever had to do.

Merry Christmas to you and yours...
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Comment by Lilla

December 25th 2006 01:35
Voices,

I am in the same boat and can only say the more you let her go, the easier it will be for both of you... be careful of not poisoning her with your fears... each generation is programmed with the evolutionary survival skills for their unique circumstances... you must trust mother nature in this process... focusing on negative will only attract it...for me that is the greatest fear and I spend so many hours practicing eradicating all and sundry negative thoughts the moment they pop their ugly little brutish heads up into my fertile imagination grounds... I clobber them and replace them with a positive thought and creative vision...

I'm constantly planning little things like buying her toasters, and washing machine... I think about her 21st birthday party ... her graduation... her acceptance into NASA... her discovery of a new comet... her continued recognition for dancing excellence [in a wheel chair], you name it... I plan it... no time for ugly little negative thoughts to penetrate... you must be vigilant in this and things will all work out well, trust me... she is a hard cookie, just like you were when you were 15... you've just forgotten because life has worn you down a bit... as it does...

I think for me the hardest part in letting go, is looking at myself and saying, yes I raised her properly and I am confident that I imbued in her all the common sense and practicality I could... I taught her well and she learnt right from wrong and family values... so that even when she is tempted [and if at first makes a bad choice], eventually the family values of love and good and right will kick in and something within her will scream... No, this is not right, I don't want to be a part of this crap... whatever 'this crap' may be at the time... the same way it screams in my chest ... even now at 40 ...

Be strong, poppy, she'll do fine... anyway 15 is still a little young to leave home if you can afford her...?

Lilla...

Comment by The Voices in my Head

December 25th 2006 02:07
Lilla,
I have copied those words and pasted them into a journal I am creating for her graduation. I look at it often and your words of wisdom of one who is there and doing that, will remind me to remember to not forget to remember. *smile*

Thank you SO much, Lilla, honestly. Your comment is a gift...

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Voices~

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