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lamenting my near train love

May 8th 2008 05:10
I think I found the reason why nice guys finish last.

Or atleast a helping hand.

My new partner sat in front of me on a city rail train on monday, a macarthur train. A beautiful blonde, great eyes and even better smile.

Now I don't usually like blondes, so I knew she was special, and I know she liked me, atleast a little. See my cousin told me what the signs are, hair playing, half smile and small giggle.

But why could I not say hello after we shared a giggle at a man tripping up the steps?

Now I consider myself a nice guy, I've never cheated, I listen, and other stuff (haha trying to sound masculine, stuff, yeh I am tough) im average build, average looks. So I should have said hello.


But the whole time I could only 2nd guess myself and ask what if she had a boyfriend.

Yep! I pretty much shat myself.

Ok ok ill come clean.

I am kind of using this post as a search for my near train love.

I know some details. Stacey f. Studying tourism at a tafe, she lives some where in campbelltown, this is an educated guess.

She also had some lyrics written on her folder, your not my favourite mistake, or something.

I concede it would be near impossible to find her now, it is my fault. But seeing as though I didn't have the guts to try to her face I surely have the guts to try online.

Next time, telling a friend you have feelings for them, another lamenting post of the sad love life that I live!
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Comment by Brad Gaylard

May 8th 2008 05:46
Sometimes, you've just gotta go for it, mate. If you accept in advance that there is a strong possibility of rejection, then you are better equipped to deal with it if it happens.

And if she doesn't shoot you down - you win.

I know it's as scary as hell, but really, what's the worst that can happen?

As the saying goes - "he who hesitates, masturbates."

Comment by slacko

May 8th 2008 05:55
Hahaha that's an awesome saying, I had never heard that previously, that will stay with me for ever. Thanks for reading and thanks for comment!

Comment by Carmen Carez

May 8th 2008 06:24
Yeah man, you should have dived in. It's better to do something you will regreat later than to regreat not doing it.
Be proud of yourself as "the nice guy" ! It's a f*ken rarity! I always used to be in to those dirty looking but great smelling rock and roll DJs or promoters who always break your heart at some stage, no matter how strong you tell yourself you will be this time around.
...Then I met Rob.
...At the cricket.
...When I wasn't even going to go because my previous weekend had been too massive and I was afraid that all the free champagne might kill me.
He is a rarity. A "nice guy". Or actually a partyboy who I managed to tame (it's a first). He is wonderful, and I am so glad that he sprinted through the crowd at the cricket, with a bad knee, even when I was walking past with another man! Now that's diving in head first! But he did it, and he got me. And now we are getting married in the end of July

How's that for a lovestory?
Good luck champ. I believe in you! x

Comment by slacko

May 8th 2008 06:29
Congrats to you. That's an awesome story.

And way to go rob! Balls of steel! Im very impressed.

Hopefully your comment will bring out the rob in me!

Thanks for reading

Comment by Anonymous

May 11th 2008 06:02
slacko slacko slacko when will you men learn just because us girls play with our hair or smile or laugh it doesnt mean we are keen on you, we may just feel sorry for you.
it looks like you have missed your chance with this blonde unless you catch the train every monday for the next three years in the hope she will be on there again. good luck in the love life situation (your going to need it) keep us all updated on it

Comment by slacko

May 11th 2008 07:15
Oh great so now I have to try work out if a girl likes me or is actually laughing at me. I need a haircut. Gar, I worked up the courage all last week to say hi, tomorrow.

Tomorrow 2nd carriage at the bottom.

Woo! I need to psych myself up

Comment by Carmen Carez

May 11th 2008 23:31
I will keep my fingers crossed for you G!

Comment by Anonymous

May 12th 2008 00:25
make sure you post on here tonight if she is on the train and if you do anything about it, goodluck

Comment by slacko

May 12th 2008 00:42
I have another post to blog tonight, ill throw a post note at the bottom of any updates.

Fingers crossed indeed.

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