JEz

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I Heart New York fashion

May 18th 2012 07:08
New York: bright lights, fifth avenue, Jimmy Choo, cowboy boots and Prada. Whatever your fashion flair, New York style cannot be denied, nor can my love affair with the city I long to call home.

Recognised as the style capital of the world, New York has always been the centre of the universe to New Yorkers, but since the glam lives of the Sex and the City gals were beamed into the house of every funky female around the globe all those years ago, it also became the centre of most of our universes too.

What self respecting female has not dreamed of New York and believes that deep down, she is really Carrie Bradshaw just with less access to Jimmy Choo and maybe just minus the never-ending wardrobe? That show, and ultimately that city, epitomised style. A lot of this was thanks to stylist Patricia Field, one of the biggest names in New York fashion, and stylist to the stars and how many of us not living in NY would have sold our souls to be there when the producers sold the majority of the show’s wardrobe? I would have sold my sister’s too.

So when a girlfriend of mine invited me to her wedding on the east coast of the USA, the lure of shoes, glamour, and more shoes had me booking a flight in about three minutes. And of course I wanted to be at the wedding, too…

When you look past the tourists, the streets of New York double as catwalks. Knowing this, and despite recommendations from everyone to pack practical shoes due to the amount of walking we’d be doing, no sensible footwear made it into my overstuffed suitcase. And hallelujah for that. Passing seven year olds wearing very trendy dresses with footless tights and cowboy boots was enough to enable me to live through the pain of my pointy 80s style ankle boots.

And the cowboy boots were not just reserved for the kiddies – these babies were everywhere! Cowboy (cowgirl?) boots were everywhere in the USA, and I made it through three states on my travels, so it cant be a passing trend. The style is beginning to slowly hit the stores again in Australia after a brief debut a few years ago, but judging by the number of trendies getting about in them in the Big Apple, no doubt they will be everywhere once down under's winter stock starts hitting the shelves.

The other obvious thing about New York’s style is how varied it is. Yeah, they have about triple the population of any of our major cities, but it's obvious that everyone is very much their own person and the myriad of styles evident on any given street reflects this. Boho chic is everywhere in the likes of Greenwich Village, where you can buy vintage Mister men t-shirts for a hefty fee, to the Upper East Side where women and their little girls make their way to Prada in matching leopard print coats. Yes, those mother-daughter duos actually exist, which evoked a rather large, wistful sigh from little old tourist me.

I couldn’t resist the lure of the shopping, and maxxed my credit card on day three buying fabulous boots. Not to be perturbed, my boyfriend was then instructed to foot the bill until I could resolve what was obviously a mistake by the bank. One of our especially fun days (although strangely not how he has since described it) started with a trip to Fashion Avenue, and a stop off at Jimmy Choo. Interestingly, the sales assistant in Jimmy Choo wasn’t actually wearing any shoes… figure that one out. The day continued with trips to Gucci, Abercrombie and Fitch, Bebe (for some home love!), Saks Fifth Avenue and of course Macy’s where a miracle in regards to my bank balance instead of Santa Claus would have been most welcome.

Shopping in SoHo for shoes did not disappoint, and although by the end of the day I was too scared to actually venture into the multi-story Louis Vuitton and Chanel stores, window shopping was also kind of fun, and provided inspiration to become a multi-millionaire in the near future.

The style capital of the world did not disappoint, and I had to purchase new luggage in order to get everything home. And the resulting fashion parade that has ensued since returning home has been generating the appropriate level of admiring comments from colleagues and friends alike (and you’d want to hope so after the financial deficit I returned home with).
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Black Tie Fashion

April 9th 2012 23:44
For most women, the thought of a black tie event provides an instant rush of delight - thoughts of glamorous dresses, the chance to bring out gowns that never usually get to see the light of day, or better, the chance to buy one - immediately fill our heads. Those same thoughts often have the tendency for dread to quickly supersede delight, and concerns about hair, make-up, cellulite, if Spanx work under the dress of choice etc can end up dominating.

But there is little denying that most women love the chance to frock up, so seeing the words black tie, for all their pressure, gives us a thrill. It's the same reason we love the races - it's a lot easier to look hot in a glam outfit with some hair and make-up support than it is kicking it at home in your usual chill out clothes. And I speak from experience, as I very recently went to a charity ball where I was uber excited to pull out all the stops. I can admit that dating a still new and totally fabulous man who invited me to said ball was the reason I was so committed to looking totally fabulous, so despite being the girl who usually gets ready in 30 minutes, I started getting ready at 3.

So, there I was at 7pm, totally glam and ready to go and fabulous man told me I was beautiful which is really all I wanted, and off we went. The event was at a fabulously swanky hotel and swarms of other glamours were pouring into the building, sipping champagne and eyeing each other off.

And then the inevitable happened. After the champagne kept flowing, the fancy dinner was had, and the band kicked in - the event became a year ten formal.

What is it about black tie events that ultimately leave you feeling like you're at a school ball? Ties get loose, morals get even looser and in some incredibly tragic circumstances, shoes come off. The dance floor becomes a sea of bad moves, groping, wine spillages and girls gyrating like lap dancers.
All the grace, style and class evident at the commencement of the evening - and all the reasons we wanted to attend in the first place - appear long forgotten. And heaven forbid you head to the after party, which everyone of course does, because they want to be seen in their finery, where things get even messier. And by the time you hit your front door (sometimes literally....) and you catch sight of yourself in the hallway mirror, you are barely able to recognise the fabulous figure that had glided past so many hours earlier.

But the next time those two little words pop out of an invite - the only thoughts of the last black tie event that will remain are those of the start, and the fact you were beautiful and you'll get excited all over again.
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Fashion in the hard times

February 14th 2012 02:59
We're being told regularly these days that things aren't all that great economy-wise. We're hearing that retail is suffering it's worst year in decades and that we're just not spending. So what does this mean for fashion?

Well, renowned demographer Bernard Salt has an opinion (of course) that can be translated to fashion, and I find this man fascinating so thought I'd share. Basically he's said that in the face of economic downturn females return to an ingrained desire to seek out “manly” men. And in saying this, he predicted the downturn of the metrosexual trend that has dominated male fashion, grooming and lifestyle for so long now.

Interestingly, at around the same time that Bernard was publicly pitying those males who purchase more beauty products than their female partners, stories of designers returning to beefy men on the catwalk over the skinny boys we’ve seen of late began to hit the fashion pages. Could it be that this is already being reflected in fashion and in what is either a very clever marketing move, designers are sending manly men down their catwalks in the hopes of sustaining their sales, and female following, in these days of economic hardship? Whatever it is, it would appear to be working. Women are swooning and whilst high street sales have been hard hit in the current recession, designer sales have managed to be better maintained. I blogged recently about heavage and maybe this is another sign of the trend - men who can show a bit (or a lot...) of brawn may be better at attracting a mate.

So it would seem Mr Salt possibly has a point. His argument is based around the notion that a woman’s perception of a potential mate’s ability to provide for her, particularly in times of difficulty, is greatly influenced by physicality and ruggedness. And in times of hardship, it's those rugged men that appear to be the safer choice if a lady wants to feel secure and looked after. The metrosexual man, as great as he may look in Armani skinny jeans with his freshly moisturised face - if we’re honest about it - doesn’t really look like he could take to the mountains to secure his family some food should he have to, does he?
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Man cleavage...is definitely in...

January 13th 2012 08:25
Man cleavage. Heavage. Heard of it? It's been around for a while, the gay community are definitely champions of it and it's creeping into straight man land too....whatever you call it and no matter where you look, the men of this city are certainly daring to bare now that the sun is finally out.

It is virtually impossible to leave your house in Sydney at the moment and not see a whole lot of naked chest, thanks to many a man wearing a plunging neckline. And I’m not talking about the standard v-neck here, or even the type of more risqué v-neck John Travolta sported in Saturday Night Fever. I mean those necklines so deep, that, if worn by a female, would require hollywood tape or at least a good defence against an indecency charge. I’m not sure what started this trend, or when it will end, but it has certainly taken hold, and from Monday to Friday, dusk til dawn, there is a large contingent of often hairy chests on view around town


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Shopping with your man

December 5th 2011 22:44
As Christmas is almost upon us, the high streets and shopping malls are upping in the ante in the bedlam stakes which never makes for a pleasant shopping experience. Added to this, some women seem to think that shopping with their boyfriends in tow will somehow improve the situation. Unless you are yet to establish that your other half is actually a shopping-loving gay man, I have news for you - bringing him along is not a good idea.

Ladies, it’s common knowledge that one of a man’s least favourite things to do is accompany his girlfriend shopping. And I have to admit that having your boyfriend accompany you shopping is also one of my least favourite things to have happen. You know why? Because it’s not just his shopping experience you are ruining - it's mine. Here are my reasons


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The fat day

November 21st 2011 21:14
Fat days are the worst, and you often realise you are having a fat day at the worst possible time. As you are desperately trying to find an outfit for work because you have a major presentation. Or when you're running late for a date with a hot guy. But the biggest problem with a fat day is that once you have decided you're having one, no matter what you put on, your problem area (or areas) only seem to continue to increase in size, and the more outfits you try, the fatter you think you look. And instead of motivating us to exercise, the fat day only seems to encourage sitting on the couch eating copious amounts of ice-cream to console ourselves.

It happens to everyone. You can pull a size 6 dress out of the cupboard, put it on and feel like you have a bigger pot belly than your beer-guzzling uncle. The trick is trying not to get so caught up in staring at your wobbly bits that you don't notice that you actually do look good in what you have on. So


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The fat day

November 21st 2011 21:11
Fat days are the worst, and you often realise you are having a fat day at the worst possible time. As you are desperately trying to find an outfit for work because you have a major presentation. Or when you're running late for a date with a hot guy. But the biggest problem with a fat day is that once you have decided you're having one, no matter what you put on, your problem area (or areas) only seem to continue to increase in size, and the more outfits you try, the fatter you think you look. And instead of motivating us to exercise, the fat day only seems to encourage sitting on the couch eating copious amounts of ice-cream to console ourselves.

It happens to everyone. You can pull a size 6 dress out of the cupboard, put it on and feel like you have a bigger pot belly than your beer-guzzling uncle. The trick is trying not to get so caught up in staring at your wobbly bits that you don't notice that you actually do look good in what you have on. So


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broken silence

September 28th 2011 11:35
I must have jinxed it. In the last three days, as many friends have asked me how long it's been since I heard from the TBE, and I have responded that it's the longest period yet - 4 weeks I believe.

And then today, there he pops up on my iPhone, with the preview panel showing he is rolling out the same old lines he's been pushing at me for the last ten months...."We never loved each other..." I didn't bother opening it and hit delete


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Matchy matchy!

September 27th 2011 09:16
I have to admit that I love watching The Golden Girls, and the insane 80s outfits are only one of the reasons this show is so fabulous. Featuring regularly is the good old twin set. Oh so matchy matchy! But I think the ongoing appearance of overly coordinated ensembles is somewhat understandable.

As a child, I think for many of us our earliest fashion memories involve trying to choose our own outfits and being told what matches – and more to the point, what doesn’t. Clashing colours and patterns are pointed out ever so nicely when, as a four year old, you try to dress yourself in every shade of pink you can get your hands on. Since moving beyond that phase, I have discovered some very interesting points about this whole matching business


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Cry, cry again

September 13th 2011 12:49
I know that I am an emotional being, especially over the course of the last 11 months, but today I have cried three times and that's a lot even for me.

I have been at home with a cold for the last day and a half and I have forgotten how much being unwell takes its emotional toll on me. I know I feel very sorry for myself when I am under the weather, but today I was reminded of to what a great extent when I ended up in tears three times in the space of as many hours


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June 22nd 2009 08:00
no, I appreciate the feedback Journeywoman! I am as time poor as I am money poor at the moment but intend to start doing more with this little baby soon! Thanks for reading!

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