it's her 1st day,on her 1st job!!!!
May 25th 2007 21:06
she hated the uniform at first but, now she's feeling better about it. here she is on her 1st day, 1st job, all dressed and ready to go. she doesn't look a bit nervouse.
so, i'm a little weird on first i'm sure!!! but my kids are my world. so is hubby. welive here in this whole state with no one. just us, in this home. we do go to church, but when we walk out taht door, thats it, taht life stays there and this one here. we are a close knit family and do not realy have outsiders involved. i LOVE long distance friends. i'm kind of stingy i guess and want "Our" time mostly.a few get togethers a year, and maybe some parties, perfect. but tahts as far as it goes. i have had a few friends with un stable lives.i'dalways get scared they'd get kicked out or divorce or something, calling me to let them luve with us. no, please don't ask, please don't ask. lol so far soo good. i had a friend taht friend after friend would live with them. That never works super well. ilike feeling like i can always do what i want, and be who i am, in my own home. it's hard for me to do taht with people living with me i'd imagine. i'd sooo help in a second if REALY needed, but if someone just refuses to work, knowing things are going down hill and they are about to loose everything, i just think helping them is more harm then good. and you should NEVER just try and find a new man to fix things. "Oh, well they have money, and um, they are cute, and um, sounds like a great idea!!" makes me wnat to throw up. sooo many people taht way in this world and they'll even use their kids to help hook them. makes me sadand i think it has never worked out. they still go from place to place, getting evicted. i want to teach my children to NEVER rely on a man. you shouldn't even jump from one to another. Take some time. spend some time with kids. ahow them that tahts alll you need.or they'll grow up the same way. mymom was taht way, but for some reason i did fine. when me and my ex broke up, i was scared, sure, but i found us a place, moved us on my own, and worked to support them. i did meet charlie three months later but i wasn't looking. he was my best friends boss and i fell in love with him before we even had our first blind date. he liked my friend and left her sticky notes on her car. now let me say, he wasn't her boss anymore when he started leaving the notes. she transfered to the office instead of in the mill, so she didn't have to work the swing shift. she wanted a muscle man instead and after dating both, she dropped charlie. her muscle man turned out to be an A'hole and turned to drugs years later. not taht all men taht ahve muscles are, but he was conseided, and all. she asked me to go on a blind date. even then we didn't move in together for 3 whole years. no need to rush into things. even if money is tight. if you don't, your children will probably do the same. i've seen it happen time and time again. makes me sad. i felt like i wasn't good enough, with my mom. she never could just be with us. even if they didn't live with us, they where always comming around. i'm writing a poem about my mom, about all of this. needs LOTS of work, but i wills hare when i get it worked out. it's like four pages long right now. <grins>
ok, i'm off!!!
i have planter boxes ready for flowers. i have plants ready to go in the gardens.i still have pen pals to answer. non-prof work, letters to send out, crosses to paint, addy's to be gotten.
Tammy
so, i'm a little weird on first i'm sure!!! but my kids are my world. so is hubby. welive here in this whole state with no one. just us, in this home. we do go to church, but when we walk out taht door, thats it, taht life stays there and this one here. we are a close knit family and do not realy have outsiders involved. i LOVE long distance friends. i'm kind of stingy i guess and want "Our" time mostly.a few get togethers a year, and maybe some parties, perfect. but tahts as far as it goes. i have had a few friends with un stable lives.i'dalways get scared they'd get kicked out or divorce or something, calling me to let them luve with us. no, please don't ask, please don't ask. lol so far soo good. i had a friend taht friend after friend would live with them. That never works super well. ilike feeling like i can always do what i want, and be who i am, in my own home. it's hard for me to do taht with people living with me i'd imagine. i'd sooo help in a second if REALY needed, but if someone just refuses to work, knowing things are going down hill and they are about to loose everything, i just think helping them is more harm then good. and you should NEVER just try and find a new man to fix things. "Oh, well they have money, and um, they are cute, and um, sounds like a great idea!!" makes me wnat to throw up. sooo many people taht way in this world and they'll even use their kids to help hook them. makes me sadand i think it has never worked out. they still go from place to place, getting evicted. i want to teach my children to NEVER rely on a man. you shouldn't even jump from one to another. Take some time. spend some time with kids. ahow them that tahts alll you need.or they'll grow up the same way. mymom was taht way, but for some reason i did fine. when me and my ex broke up, i was scared, sure, but i found us a place, moved us on my own, and worked to support them. i did meet charlie three months later but i wasn't looking. he was my best friends boss and i fell in love with him before we even had our first blind date. he liked my friend and left her sticky notes on her car. now let me say, he wasn't her boss anymore when he started leaving the notes. she transfered to the office instead of in the mill, so she didn't have to work the swing shift. she wanted a muscle man instead and after dating both, she dropped charlie. her muscle man turned out to be an A'hole and turned to drugs years later. not taht all men taht ahve muscles are, but he was conseided, and all. she asked me to go on a blind date. even then we didn't move in together for 3 whole years. no need to rush into things. even if money is tight. if you don't, your children will probably do the same. i've seen it happen time and time again. makes me sad. i felt like i wasn't good enough, with my mom. she never could just be with us. even if they didn't live with us, they where always comming around. i'm writing a poem about my mom, about all of this. needs LOTS of work, but i wills hare when i get it worked out. it's like four pages long right now. <grins>
i have planter boxes ready for flowers. i have plants ready to go in the gardens.i still have pen pals to answer. non-prof work, letters to send out, crosses to paint, addy's to be gotten.
Tammy
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Comment by David
This:
That line just struck me as something I think you should rephrase. That's all. Nothing more. I've said plenty of things like it myself. And it's taken other people to point out to me that my thinking was a little bit clouded by emotion at the time.
I'd be rephrasing that, and writing, I want to teach my children to find a good man to rely on in life, or stay single.
Otherwise, they will come back at you with things like, 'Well how come you rely on Charlie and live with him?'
I get the gist of what you're saying, but kids will pick up on every word you say and hold you to it. Even moreso if you've written it down.
My sister swore black and blue she would never live with another man after three failed marriages / partnerships. I gave her a month. She was hooked up with another man within two weeks.
To say women don't need men is as ludicrous as saying men don't need women.
Unless of course, a person is a gay or lesbian. But even then, it's still ludicrous from a Christian perspective.
David ...
Comment by charliesgirl_992000
Histeries, Mysteries and what not
Lifes little slices
Mystical Creativity
yep, we for sure need a man, there are some things you just can't do with out one, like romantic dinners, bubble baths, someone to cry to when need a friend, or if you have a break down day. <smiles>
Tammy
Comment by katyzzz
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I think she looks great, she must feel so pleased with herself, and the work ethic, too.
We can all do with that.
katyzzz
Comment by charliesgirl_992000
Histeries, Mysteries and what not
Lifes little slices
Mystical Creativity
Thanks for being here!
Tammy
Comment by Wendi
*LOL*
As for the rest of the post? I'll just chew on it for a while without saying much.
Comment by Wendi
Comment by charliesgirl_992000
Histeries, Mysteries and what not
Lifes little slices
Mystical Creativity
you know, i think everyone knows someone like i'm talking about. "does it just big any of you as much as it does me? it's one thing when a new LOVE falls into your lap, or developes from a friendship. i moved on kind of fast with Charlie. just dating. not marriage or living together. Charlie and my ex where all i've realy ever been with. maybe a couple when i was 17. but some people just "Can't' be alone. it drives me nuts.
i LOVE taht i moved away from all taht drama, BUT now that my kids are there for soo long, it's in my face again.
like i said, it's one thing for love to accidently happen. but to desperatly go out there looking for it. i don't want my kids to go through taht, and hopefully they don't because i didn't. i know we need men. i don't mean it like that, but they need to know they can support theirself if theres a break up. i mean take Tulsa for example, and how hard you worked to do it on your own. taking many jobs. i did the same thing when i left my ex.
she loved her first day, by the way!! she was smiling sooo big. already made a realy good frined. so thats atleast how it is right now. never can tell until a bit. the girl already wanst to come stay the night, ride horses and such. Kaitlyn is on cloud nine.
well, i gotta go pick her up now. then finish my palm reading post.
Tammy