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Make him work

March 3rd 2008 04:13
You found out he doesn't want you for a relationship and that it's better if you stay friends.
Well maybe it is better for him that you stay friends but you still want more.
So how do you make him realise that he needs and wants you as his girlfriend?
You make him work. Simple.
You make him work a bit more, you make him notice all the good things about you and you flirt a bit more than usual with other guys.
If it works, you are a genius but things take time and require a little bit of work.
The golden rule is that you don't say yes to everything he says or asks.

Make him work sometimes for your attention and give things space and time.
Do not always start the conversations.
Spend less time with him.
This will make him realise that a piece of his life is missing, that things do not feel the same with out you next to him.
With this said just remember this is something that is hard and time consuming. It doesn't always work even though in theory it makes sense.
Take time and if you feel like it doesn't seem to be working just move on and put your time into somebody else who appreicates it.
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Is it in his kiss?

March 1st 2008 04:00
For many years there has been a great debate about feelings behind kissing.
I believe that you can not tell how somebody feels through kissing.
Many people kiss differently, so in order to be able to know what a kiss means you would have to have everybody in the world kiss the same way in order to even attempt understanding the meaning behind a kiss.
To give an example, I once was told that if the person closes their eyes when kissing they mean it.
I have kissed numerous guys and have only ever had one guy kiss with his eyes open.
We dated for three months.
I have had guys kiss with their eyes shut, who wake up in the morning and leave never to be heard from again.

Kissing is something that can mean something but only after you know how the person feels through talking and other actions and gestures.
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Is it a one nighter?

March 1st 2008 02:59
You wake up next to a guy you like and just spent the night with.
Thoughts like, does he like me or did he just want the sex race through your mind.
He wakes up, you possilby talk and then you leave his place or he leaves yours depending on the situation.
It doesnt seem to hit you until about thirty minutes later, when you are going through the nights events that you realise that you still do not know what the whole night meant to him. Was it a one night stand or wasn't it?
Like any other woman out there I have been in this situation.
I can definately say it is not at all pleasant, nor does it get any better when the guy you like actually confirms your worse fear.
It was a one night stand.
I was in my first semester at university and he was a medical student in his third.
Our personalities hit it off straight away and after weeks of me flirting and boosting his ego it just so happened I woke up next to him one over cast morning.
Like most women I could not help wondering if this was him declaring his love for me or whether the whole night was just a chance for him to get laid.
The car ride home unveiled the truth and yes ,it was a one night stand.
Sure I was upset.
I felt stupid for about two days until I realised that he was the one missing out, not just on casual sex, but on me and all the great things I could have given him in a relationship.
So ladies, don't feel stupid.
Move on and find a man who is worth everything you have to offer.
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