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How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice

July 13th 2010 23:13
Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, "how do they do it?" Yes, females are attracted to status. Yes, they are attracted to strength and confidence. The art of distracting a woman from all of your shortcomings and making her fall in love with you for who you are is called seduction. Read on to find out how to do it.
1. Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes.
2. Manage your reputation. While people around you begin to like you, you may start to appear phony or plastic. You must also subtly reveal your human side with talk of sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. Occasionally hint to people that you enjoy the company of young girls on a purely platonic level. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."
3. Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is dammmmnnnn toooo gorgeous, ignore her(though it’s quite difficult,bt if you are sure you want to get her-idnore her). After hearing about your tight reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
4. Hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily. Try and make sure she sees you and some female friends.
5. Wait for the sign that she is interested. The gorgeous girl was ignoring you at first and now she flirts heavily. The not-so-attractive girl was shy and hesitant at first, but now she drops (very subtle) hints that she wants you to make a move. Now when I see these signs I give her just what she wants, start calling often, and when she just begins to know me I withdraw for a while to surface after about 7-9 days with excuses of begin busy with work.(girls don’t like idle guys)
6. Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, , or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about history, astrology, dreams, fate, sex (sometimes),and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things with a lovely facial expression and a wonderful smile. The eyes are very important. Never apologize. Never worry when you are talking with a girl, because it will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of weakness.
7. Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about. Don't lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. I love this step, because am very ticklish and once a girl spots this little weakness she will always like to tickle me.
8. Give her plenty of space. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
9. Ask her out. You will eventually learn what the right time is--not too early and not too late. If you flirt with a chick over a long period of time, you will notice that the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off. This is a signal that she is sick of waiting and spites you for it(she begins to avoid you). You have no chance after that. Girls are very picky about timing. Make sure it's an offer she can't refuse. It takes attention to detail, practice and luck to pick the perfect first date. I had a problem like this with a girl I once dated, I wasted time in getting into something we could have started long time, then she started avoiding me. When I asked her what the problem was to my greatest surprise she said she sick of waiting for us to have intimacy, I was stunned.
10. Turn on the charm. She already said "yes." As difficult as it is to blow it now, many guys do by being shy. If you don't show that you're attracted to her now, you will be seen as unappreciative or weak. Girls typically give about ten "nos" for every "yes," so show (don't tell) your appreciation for it. It's OK to bend the truth. If she's gorgeous, insinuate how clever and charming she is. If she's not, insinuate that she is. A great deal of the conversation will be non-verbal. Use ambiguous physical contact. Walk close enough to her that you brush against each other often, touch her lower back when you are on queue making an order in a eatery . If you are nervous when you touch a girl, it will make her very uncomfortable. Confidence is the difference between touching her and molesting her.
11. If she is shy, send well crafted text msgs to her. There are some diamonds in the rough out there. When she is reading a letter, she can enjoy your words of love without worrying about whether you like the way she looks or acts. Each time she reads it (and she will read it over and over again so make it good) she will wish more and more that you are there with her. Make every word count and keep it brief. Whether talking or writing, keep it brief. It is better to say nothing at all than to say something that is not seductive.
12. Obey the correct sequence of physical interactions. Don't move too fast. Wait for her to touch you flirtatiously. Hand-holding is next. Then comes close contact and embraces. Then comes kissing. Then comes the making out and heavy petting and all the rest. The process should be slow, poetic and musical. There is no room for discomfort in seduction.
13. Establish an emotional connection. When you talk to your person of interest, find out commonalities, establish the moment, and you may relate to things she is passionate about or interested in.

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