Helen's House

Adelaide, South Australia, AUSTRALIA


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Happy is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding, for her proceeds are better than the profits of silver, and her gain than fine gold. She is more precious than rubies, and all the things you may desire cannot compare with her.

About Me
I'm Helen, and my interest with this blog is to bridge the generation gaps that have formed in our society, to unite the vigour and magnificence of youth with the wisdom that comes down through the generations. So many young people are having to do their learning by trial and error which is definitely the long and arduous way around. Gaining wisdom is a short cut to successful living on all fronts, particularl the relationship front (and doesn't that affect every part of life?)

I've lived both successfully and unsuccessfully, and God can turn this into wisdom for a new generation.

I share my home with an international student, two dogs and a bossy cat.

Contact me at helenmmsa@bigpond.com with questions you'd like me to write about.

May God bless you with wisdom.

Helen.

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The Prince and the Grasshopper

February 9th 2008 00:49
Belac the Prince was mighty in spirit and Reppoh his adventuring mate.
They woke one morning on a brand new day, just bursting to get out through the gate.
In Adventure Land they wandered with excitement rising high,
They marvelled at the flora and they marvelled at the sky.

They marvelled at a million things they passed along the way –
The houses that some people built, the fashion of the day,
The cars that raced in clouds of dust to distant dreaming lands,
The assembling of clever musicians who could orchestrate in bands.

Belac gazed at houses architected in great style.
“I’ll build one just like that” he cackled with a white toothed smile.
It will be the very thing for an adventurer’s family retreat.
Its tables will be overflowing with every good thing to eat.

“I wish that I could have a house” cried Reppoh loud and clear.
I’d love to have my children growing up there year by year.
I don’t know how to get one though. The finance problem’s tough.
The money’s hard to come by and I never have enough.

“I’ll be back before too long” was Belac’s loud refrain.
This is the place I’ve dreamed of and I’ll fix to make it mine.
Inside will be palatial, fitted out for a princess
And a flock of charming children, ponies, toys and happy guests.

“It would be nice if I were rich and I could have one too.
I’d like to build mine right by yours. But what am I to do?
I’d have to be a lawyer to afford a thing like that.
But I don’t care for study. I’m a hippy and that’s flat.

I don’t like the straight-jacket of a disciplined working life. .
I wasn’t built for pushing through this circumstantial strife.
I wish it weren’t so difficult to manage all these things.
You’re lucky to be blessed so much. I can’t pull all those strings.”

“Well, shake a leg” quoth Belac in his direct kind of manner.
You are gifted just as I am. There’s no need for all this stammer.
I’ll be planting olives on this hill next month. If you’ll agree,
You can work. I’ll pay you well. You’ll soon be building next to me”

“Oh no! That’s too demeaning and the sun is very hot.
It’s all right for you with the tractor, but I think I’d rather not.
The problem is that I’m not built for the days out in the sun.
That work is so repetitive. It isn’t any fun.

So Belac went his merry way in empire building mode,
While Reppoh cringed among his friends and shared with them his load
Of worry that, while others reaped a harvest they had earned,
He couldn’t make first base – and they mourned with him as he moaned.

“He offered me a job”, he griped to friends – he had a few!
“While he sits in his tractor telling me what I’m to do!
Who does he think he is? I’m not his servant. Whatever next?’
And he swaggered off to have a pint and send his mate a text.

Prince Belac built his house upon the hill in sweat and tears
As he hit his thumb with hammers and got past financial fears.
His orchard grew and flourished and his growing children now
Would take some food to Reppoh who was pining, very low.

Reppoh’s friends agreed that when the Prince’s ship came in
With imports from an island for the market in the town,
That he should pay and share his wealth with everybody there,
And thus he’d help to raise them up in times of their despair.

They set about an action plan to raise a lobby group
To shame him into paying for their schools and other scoop.
Compassion flew around for Reppoh and his friends in trouble.
Belac built a school to teach their children how to rumble.

He had a vision glorious concerning what they’d learn,
Including principles of ethics, hard work. discipline.
The teaching of core subjects would be diligent and keen
So each growing child would have the chance of vision and a dream.

Reppoh then elected to have a say in education
Deciding what the school should teach his puny little children.
He’d teach them how to lobby for help to alleviate their misery,
And how they had rights to share the wealth of other people’s industry.

They should not have any principles and ethics brought upon them
That other people lived by. And the new concept of freedom
Would not limit a child to listening to a bossy teacher.
They should have fun at all costs. Isn’t fun life’s major feature?

Well, Reppoh had a lot of friends who liked to see things his way.
It was comfortable and easy, with no major responsibility.
His children grew believing fun is life’s great purpose given
And theirs by right (they’d lots of “rights”) in their crippled kind of haven.

But Belac taught his tribe to work and dream and make things happen.
“God gave you talents”, he used to say, “He’s expecting you to use them.
He designed, in us, from the very first, a people built to prosper –
And the more we do, the more He’ll show the opportunities on offer.

We will take care of those who are unable to work and toil,
Whose weakness truly limits them. They are annointed with the precious oil.
But don’t succumb to compassion for the man who makes excuses.
He may learn something when he suffers the “poor me” consequences”.






Questions for your study group.

Reppoh adopts his new identity (name) in the fourth verse. What do you think that name might be? Clue: It certainly isn’t “Rich”.


Reppoh makes excuses. What are his excuses?


What differences in attitude are there between the two men?


Reppoh exaggerates his position in describing his ineptitude. How does he do this?


Who is affected by Reppoh’s behaviour?


What effect does Reppoh have on the people around him?



How does this poem as a whole speak to you?

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Five minutes to midnight.
December the thirty first,
Five minutes to a brand new year –
To a brave new world at last.

Sweet Jesus, you’ve been with me.
Sweet Jesus you’ll be with me again.
And everything is boldly, wonderfully new
When I walk the world with You.

You are always full of surprises.
Delight is with me everywhere.
I always eagerly exclaim “What’s new?”
And then, I find it’s really You.

Every problem that I tackle
You are walking by my side.
Every solution unexpected,
A miracle in its own right!

Every person that I talk to
Is one You love, for whom You died.
So every person is a miracle
A treasure whom You value with your Life.

This year let me consider other people
And treasure each one as You do.
Let me lose my soul in loving others,
For in loving them I’m loving You.

Father, let me love the one that wanders
Into error and the horrid consequence,
Let me be the one who hears their cry for attention
And gently tends their need and their distress.

Let me kindly reach the lonely and the fearful
With words of hope and overcoming power.
May I show that you’ve not only sensed their suffering,
But strengthened them with joy this very hour.

Bring me people who are looking for a pasture
With some feed that satisfies a hungry soul.
Help me plant them where the living waters tremble
That they might wet their feet –
Nay, dive in deep,
And learn to swim as their trysts they keep
With Jesus whose love makes each one whole!


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Spiritual Bedroom - Place of Trust

August 19th 2007 06:38
Ah! The Bedroom!

What is a bedroom?

It’s a place I share with only the one person I most love and trust – if I share it at all!

There’s a dressing table with a mirror. I spend quite a bit of time studying my reflection – and dressing it up a bit, a touch here and a dab there, maybe a bit of a trim, sometimes a dusting down, a pull, a tug, until the presentation is up to scratch.

A wardrobe accommodates my outer presentation. It’s quite a big wardrobe because I have lots of variety, and it needs to operate over the four seasons. Actually my new house has a walk-in robe so I’ll probably fill that up quickly too! It’s good to have plenty of space to work with!

There’s an en-suite bathroom so I can clean up easily. That’s full of lovely creams, shampoos etc so I’ll feel good after the shower.

The big bed is beautifully dressed with quilts that blend with the soft-hued curtains, puffy pillows to lean on, a high-piled carpet to put my feet on. Nearby is a bedside table with a lamp, a lace doily and a book. Oh there’s an alarm there too, to keep me aware of the time.

It’s a place where no-one – but no-one – intrudes on my love. Spouse and children are not considered an intrusion on love – they are my loves. This is a place of deepest intimacy and sharing, of pleasuring and giving, of rest and the most intimate conversations at 3am, of safety and certainty. Above all, it’s a place of trust. Where trust is lost the intimacy is damaged and relationship is stripped right down to the ugly bare bones.

So what is my spiritual bedroom?

In the wardrobe I store the clothing of kindly acts. These need to be available in all seasons of life so there is a great collection of all sorts of them, and as I go I keep finding more and more ways of offering kindness and graciousness, and tossing old ways that are less appropriate today than they were. There are shoes that take me into various types of social terrain bringing words of peace and hope. Up above there are quite a few hats for different occasions, some for tough assignments and some in bouffant, party style. Some of the outfits are classics that will always be in fashion, and others are imaginative efforts that are only worn once or twice.

The bathroom is my cleaning place where I get rid of the most offensive blemishes. Others need more detailed attention and sometimes long term management. However, even if my friends are not offended by my pimple, I work hard to eradicate it with creams and medicines for my own satisfaction. When I know my fault I eradicate it fast!

At the dressing table I look even more closely into my spirit through the mirror called Bible. That actually reads me! It reflects back to me the things that I need to pay attention to, to grow and develop properly and to please the bridegroom. (No bride should ever get beyond wanting to please her beloved!) It shows me what God sees and what people might see as they quiz me. I touch up with promises from scripture to keep my spirit working well, smelling sweet, and to prepare me to meet the world at large.

The lamp by the bed is, like the Light of the World, always there when I need Him.

As I climb into the spiritual bed, or waken, I look forward to the intimacy of the Heavenly Bridegroom, Yeshua, for whom I keep my lamp trimmed (with wicks and oil) through reading the Word, praying, announcing my love, and waiting for a “kiss” from Him (some revelation of His heart and mind that he can share with me). Ah, there is always some beautiful thing from the Bridegroom designed solely for me to taste and enjoy. You can’t do this in a hurry – it requires time and just being together with words of love and beauty. Intimacy was ever thus!

There are other lovers too! Fornicators and adulterers, because we are designed for Yeshua alone. We can indeed play with them – Ego, Individual Ism and all that huge clan, Money, Fame, Attention, Addiction, Approval, Intellect, - but they will eventually leave us in the lurch, broken and hurting. It is better to wait on the real bridegroom, “Faithful and True”, for trust is the most important part of intimacy.

It never ceases to amaze me that God looks for intimacy with us, but it’s fact. That’s why He created us!


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Mooching

August 19th 2007 04:04
Ideas are much like cattle. They come mooching up the race.
Some of them are great and some I don’t want in my face!
Some of them are sick. They come from many horrid places


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This is the area where the heart of the house is expressed. There are pictures on the wall, rugs on the floor and cushions on the big comfortable lounge, besides which stands a light to read by, and in front of which a coffee table displays a magazine. Perhaps there is a piano, or a miniature sailing ship on the mantelpiece and other tokens of an exciting life. Here there is time to relax, to entertain friends, to read, knit or watch a film. This is a place where peace reigns (hopefully).

Where are you residing spiritually? Do you have a place of peace? Do you obey the Hebrews 4 commandment to “Enter into My Rest?” Or do you worry seven days a week or 80 hours a week so that there is no time for peace. Scripture says “Abide in Me”. That takes time, a good book (called the Bible) and some magazines by your favourite authors. It means fellowship with good friends, and hospitality for the stranger who may perhaps be an angel. It cushions a welcome for the unloved person who is unable to return the compliment. But the door is locked to the vagabond who intends to disrupt and bring harm or hurt. The door of your life is discernment and understanding, to distinguish who is who and how they will be received. To whom will you open the door of your spiritual house?

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Spiritual Kitchen

July 20th 2007 03:35
This is the most important room in the house. It’s where everything happens and all the people congregate. No matter how many other recreational rooms there are in the house, the people will be in the kitchen most of the time – especially at a party! Unless it’s a barbecue. Its design is of the utmost importance.

I’m designing the kitchen of my new house right now. What I like is lots of benchtop space facing the family room with such elements as sink and stove elsewhere. This means there is plenty of room to set plates – or even trays - of food and to collect dishes


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The gyprock lining of the walls cannot withstand the external weather and has to be protected from it by the stronger brick and mortar structures with their windows.

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The foundations are down on good soil. The two who propose to marry and build the house have done the groundwork and laid the right foundations of truth and the Word of God as their code of behaviour for life. They understand each other because they have the code in common and both believe it firmly.

The choice of partner is excruciatingly important, because it gives the house its structure and presentation for life. The quality of bricks and mortar is far more important than colour and style. Even though colour and style are meaningful, they will fall apart unless the high quality is present. A friend of mine once had to tear down the walls of his new house because the bricks were running in wavy lines and the mortar was far too dry and sandy. He’d had to pay attention to a sick wife while the house was being built, and it was a very poor job. The bricks were handsome indeed, but improperly disciplined (laid) and useless. The mortar was too thin


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Building a House - Foundations

June 5th 2007 13:18
Foundations

The foundations of any house must be adequate to stand up to whatever the terrain will perpetrate on them. In Darwin, Australia they build houses to withstand cyclones like the one that wiped out the city in the 70s. In Adelaide they have to build strong enough to cope with clay soil that cracks wide open when the summer is dry. Steel rods are inserted into the foundations to keep the whole together and resist any soil movement


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Building the House

I’m building a house, a bricks and mortar house to live in. It’s slow work, but if they do it thoroughly all will be well. Bricks and roof will be finished tomorrow, I’m happy to say


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Recent Comments

Comment by Helen's House
on Jesus Camp

June 14th 2007 02:49
Excuse me too please Cibby, and thank you for the opportunity to place a different point of view.

Dear Kleonaptra,

Thank you for your challenge. I love to give account of my faith.

Hate operates llike a black/grey colour filter on everything including logic. As a Christian I earnestly try to obey Jesus and love people whoever they are, and whether or not I agree with their attitudes and actions. People are to be cared for, but also held accountable for their actions - hence our justice departments.

It is true that Christians wanted an alternative to pagan feastdays and took to using some of them for the worship of the Lord. I don't have a problem with that.

We agree to differ on Hallowe'en and Harry Potter. My comment here is that enjoyment is not the arbiter of reality. Everyone thoroughly enjoyed the Titanic until it hit the iceberg! If only they had known!

Pagan worshippers and atheists seem to have a field day belittling Jesus, who, after all, is the only one able to perform miracles and rise from the dead (well witnessed and attested facts, not myths) and whose word should therefore command more attention.

We shall indeed all give account of ourselves to our Maker one day when His justice and mercy will prevail as He sees fit. He said "I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy" He gets the last say! Jesus shows us how to delight Him with our love. We have the freewill and choice of doing that or taking whatever comes. There is love and there is accountability.

PS. I did try a few other religions. That's all they were - just belief systems. Jesus is alive and loves us! Suits me!

Comment by Helen's House
on Jesus Camp

June 5th 2007 07:09
If the Hindu caste system isn't taking away minority rights, then try the massacres of Muslims by Hindus.

Whlat people don't understand about Harry Potter is that what he does was practiced in much the same way as seances stil are, and powers of evil actually are invoked. it looks like fun, but it's a surreptitious lead in to much worse scenarios. Hallowe'en is another example of a practice (taken lightly now) which had its origins in the days of human sacrifice and will lead right back there given enough rope. Just look at what happens. Children go around to homes saying "Either give me a treat or I'll do something against you ( trick = curse)". Is that the society we want to develop? Take that to its logical conclusion! Children need to be taught to find out what they can do to help people, not how to manipulate them - even in fun!

You say it's only a game.

Words have power. They establish neurological paths in the minds of those who say them and those who hear or read them. They create the future. Why do businesses pay so much attention to the language of positive thinking - not because it doesn't do anything. Why does Coca Cola spend so much on ads? Not because it doesn't change anything. Everything that is said creates the future, so what we teach our children is crucial.

Comment by Helen's House
on Jesus Camp

June 5th 2007 04:25
Don't worry about the homeschooled children. They are quite capable of practising scientific empiricism as much as anyone else. it's the associated assumptions that are raising the questions, not emiricism itself. Christians are fine with empiricism. It just can't answer all the questions.

Speaking in tongues is a gift that a Christian might ask for and receive. It enables us to by pass the mental process (which often slows things down dramatically) and go directly into spiritual contact with God. We can ask for interpretation if we wish. Occasionally God does use this gift to communicate in another known language as well.

The warfare prayers are not about people at all. They concern the activity of spiritual beings that are up to no good, and like to take control of human activity. Christians love people without reserve and pray for them, whoever they are.

The Bush picture was simply an aid to focus children on prayers for the leader of the nation. They'd be doing that whoever the leader was because it is a directive to pray for leaders. It truly isn't political. The cardboard is only that - cardboard. The leader has huge responsibility and it is always good to pray for wisdom for them.

It truly is a terrible shame that some Christian leaders like Haggard don't live up to their word. But that doesn't mean there aren't hundreds who do. They don't get the publicity though!

Witchcraft (as in Harry Potter) is indeed an evil institution and much more non-scientific that Christianity. There are indeed spirits that connect with people, given the opportunity, just as the seances suggest. The return of witchcraft will downgrade society right back to the dark ages if we continue to play with it. It enables domination and control rather than freedom, but its manner is seductive so that the process is not well recognised.

It's sad to hear such hate messages about matters of faith. Hate is a great preventative barrier of learning, very emotive/passionate and not at all scientific.

I can't fathom why Hinduism rates so well in a scientific age!

Comment by Helen's House
on Ruff, Ruff, WOOF, WOOF!

May 13th 2007 03:54
Hi Nick,

Greetings to Sam from Banjo "Ruff, Ruff!", Dolly , "Ruff Ruff" (chihuahuas crossed with Jack Russell and Pappillon) and Sam "Meiow, Meiow!"The wisdom they would pass on is "Always check out the opportunities - (there might be food in the cat's bowl!)"

You have no idea how your responses encourage me. Thank you so much.

Helen

Comment by Helen's House
on Self-Confidence v Humility

April 27th 2007 23:15
Hallo Nick,

It's great to have your comment.

Please read again and allow that I have not sideswiped all men, or all women for that matter, although I have pointed out what i think are major personality problems today - false bases of confidence..

In fact the reason I wrote this piece is that I have recently encountered a few diamonds - male ones, One in particular is in his mid thirties and I was longing to find a sweetheart for him, and wondering why it never happened, thinking how sad it was that this quiet and beautiful man seemed to have been overlooked. I long for more widespread appreciation of the old biblical values - gentleness, faithfulness, encouragement and resourceful support. What marriages we'd see then! These are the real ingredients of love. Chemistry is only a five minute wonder with an addictive element! There's a lotmore I could say on that, but maybe another time!

Best regards, and I'm hoping you'll find your true love too.

Hallo Lilly.
How wonderful that you can see your daughters' dreams taking shape. This may not be the final form of their dreams because there is more maturing to go through yet, but they are dreaming and planning towards accomplishment. That's fantastic. And they have a mother who nurtures their dream. Even more so. I really believe that the nurturing of a dream is one of the best defences against drugs and the things that can destroy our children. It's not the only one, but it is a strong one. What about their mother's dream? How would you delineate that? One of my dreams was to be the best mother possible. What a fantastic dream that is. I suspect you share that with me. May you be fruitful in that.

Comment by Helen's House
on Three variations on the carpe diem theme

January 14th 2007 17:56
Thanks Adrian. I look forward to thenew post.

Comment by Helen's House
on Get it Happening!

January 11th 2007 06:00
Suggestion: Volunteer in the area of the work you want to do. There's no better place to be than right on the spot when the jobs come up!. Maybe that's possible, maybe not, but it's worth a thought!

Comment by Helen's House
on Three variations on the carpe diem theme

January 7th 2007 23:14
Dear Adrian,

Thank you for your response. I honour you.

You are right in that pleasure is not the defining ethic in Christianity, though deep joy is present. “Right” will enhance both group and personal interest, but may also engender strong opposition from outside.

You state correctly that many activities seen by onlookers and participants alike as Christian are not Christ-like (the defining ethic) at all. This is admittedly, confusing, but real Christ-likeness produces incredible unity of spirit, and is not ever at cross-purposes with itself.

Altruistic potential is indeed created in every person.

Re negatives – yes, there is much to be avoided. But the powerful teachings of scripture have spilled right over into the “positive thinking” culture that builds much of Western thinking today. Norman Vincent Peale and many others derive their work directly from Biblical principles, not necessarily acknowledging the fact. Observing (we call it obedience to) spiritual laws brings healthy, positive results to whoever knowingly or unknowingly applies them.

You are right. Christians look forward to a graduation ceremony at the end of earthly life, and are taught intentionally to build “treasure in Heaven” which amounts largely to loving-kindnesses towards others on earth, generating and enhancing peace, joy, health, prosperity, truth, wisdom, and much personal satisfaction.

Lastly – “called to a life that is not satisfying or happy? Again take the Martin Luther/Mother Teresa examples. There is more to life that self-serving satisfaction. Purposefulness has been built in to everyone by the Creator. Atheism may have difficulty with that, but must acknowledge that we are a purpose driven society, both individually and communally.

I suggest the purposefulness directed towards self-service is not half as satisfying as that directed towards knowing our Creator (yes, Jesus has made it possible) and the benefit of others..




Comment by Helen's House
on Three variations on the carpe diem theme

January 3rd 2007 04:21
Dear Adrian,

I am most appreciative of the fact that you look at several perspectives in your response to me

I have to say also that the chain letter is brilliant! Thank you for that.

The Christian plan for the good life is clearly set out with wisdom for seizing the day effectively. The difference is that wisdom is acquired by personal study. It applies to every moment of life, but is gained by consistent diligence, not momentary reaction as in hedonism. “Make your lives extraordinary” is definitely the potential that God placed in every human being, and is what He’d like to see harvested. Robin Williams is picking up on that. Where we differ from Williams is that we see humanity as an organism in which each separate unit (human) effects the whole, and therefore needs to operate to the benefit of the whole, not just for his own benefit. To operate only for his own benefit is to “suck” life from the rest of the community, giving nothing in return, and therefore harming it. This could compare in some respects to a cancer that sucks the life from the rest of the organism. So we try to seize every opportunity “while we may” to benefit each other and the world we live in – eg helping in disaster-damaged areas (maybe a different brand of roses, but these roses have beautiful perfume!).

We are taught to be bold in sharing our understanding because there is a time of accountability coming to each of us (related to our death) and we don’t want anyone caught short. This is the urgency factor. Every man needs to be at peace with his Creator on his deathbed. Does anyone really think he can get away with any ugly thing he likes to perpetrate and not have any consequence? Consequence is part of life here on earth and part of judgement in the heavenlies. We all have to face it. But the great urgency in the Christian life is the urgency of opportunity.

“does anything that tells you what to do with your day count?’
Why not? You can take it or leave it? Wisdom or ignorance will determine which way to go.

“And does any call to follow a religion count?”
A religion is just a belief system. That includes hedonism or atheism, or any personally devised belief system. No-one can get out of that. It’s just a matter what you put your faith in. Choose carefully!

The Unit of Time – and what to do with it:
A time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to pluck what is planted…to kill ,,, to heal ,,,, to breakdown ,,, to build up…to cast away stones… to gather stones, … to embrace … to refrain from embracing …. to gain…. to lose … to keep… to throw away …. to tear, …. to sew … to keep silence … to speak … to love… to hate … of war … of peace ….

There are plenty of time perspectives in scripture and there is also responsibility associated with time.
This scripture also demonstrates an urgency theme in the pertinent use of the moment, whatever that moment may be.

It also relates rather well to the “youthful hue” poem about a time to marry. So I think we can relate to the first variable.

Live each day as if twere thy last", Reflects the general urgency of scripture to have the satisfaction and rewards of a purposeful and complete life (maybe as distinct from a hedonistic, self-oriented style) – cf Martin Luther King, whose purpose continued after him and found satisfaction after his death, so that even his death was not in vain, but brought further attention to his purpose. Purposefulness engenders the urgency theme of scripture. His life’s purpose was greater than he was! Cf Mother Teresa and many others.

One of my favourite verses includes the purposeful words “that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend… what is the width and length and depth and height – “. My heart responds “Yes, that’s what I want!”

“Given this abstract framework, where would Christianity, in general, fall?”
I submit that, as described above, Christianity has a great deal to offer in regard to the variables. I think it lifts the plateau of “the good life” to a new level, with much more satisfaction (joy, beneficial relationships) entailed, and is therefore worth a close examination, perhaps even participation?.