He loves dirty talk, how far can the imagination spread?
March 23rd 2008 09:12
During sex, my man loves to talk. He'll tell me how much he loves my breasts, ask me if I like his cock, but that's as far as the imagination has spread. I am not use to this, I am just wrapped to have someone attentive to my sensitive bits, but I thought maybe I should try to shake this up a little and learn a bit more on the art of `Dirty talking.'
Well upon investigation, I have found two sides to the story. One side is how to teach men to dirty talk to seduce. He has mastered that. No matter how much he pisses me off, he talks himself straight back in and all I want to do is shag him. Tthe other is how woman can learn to dirty talk to keep their man interested, this is where I need help. I dont want him to see me as just a sex object. I want great sex but I want the emotional connection too.
There is also the side of long term couples who use it to keep their mate interested and spice up their love lives. Maybe he could have waited 10 years to start up then hey?
I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, I don't think he should be bored yet but rather he says he wants to draw out of me the naughty girl he thinks he hasn't seen yet. As much as that excites me I wonder then if he could ever see me as a person, not just a sex object.
When we have `Dirty Talk' I tell him the truth, I love having sex with him, but what if I say the wrong thing? What other naughty but acceptable word is there but `cock' and how many times can I tell him `I love it when you ram your cock into me' before it gets monotomous. I am only telling him the truth??!
Sources have recommended using a sexy voice, what if I sound like a freak and all his mates get to know me as `the chick that does that voice?'
Apparently communicating and setting boundaries are important, but even trying to do that could cause conflict. What if he says something I am not completely comfortable with or degrades me or vice versa (hardly posible, anything goes in his books!)?
I know this is something he likes but I am scared of having the opposite effect!
I guess you just need more than sex to keep a relationship going. Better talk to him about that........
Well upon investigation, I have found two sides to the story. One side is how to teach men to dirty talk to seduce. He has mastered that. No matter how much he pisses me off, he talks himself straight back in and all I want to do is shag him. Tthe other is how woman can learn to dirty talk to keep their man interested, this is where I need help. I dont want him to see me as just a sex object. I want great sex but I want the emotional connection too.
There is also the side of long term couples who use it to keep their mate interested and spice up their love lives. Maybe he could have waited 10 years to start up then hey?
I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, I don't think he should be bored yet but rather he says he wants to draw out of me the naughty girl he thinks he hasn't seen yet. As much as that excites me I wonder then if he could ever see me as a person, not just a sex object.
When we have `Dirty Talk' I tell him the truth, I love having sex with him, but what if I say the wrong thing? What other naughty but acceptable word is there but `cock' and how many times can I tell him `I love it when you ram your cock into me' before it gets monotomous. I am only telling him the truth??!
Sources have recommended using a sexy voice, what if I sound like a freak and all his mates get to know me as `the chick that does that voice?'
Apparently communicating and setting boundaries are important, but even trying to do that could cause conflict. What if he says something I am not completely comfortable with or degrades me or vice versa (hardly posible, anything goes in his books!)?
I know this is something he likes but I am scared of having the opposite effect!
I guess you just need more than sex to keep a relationship going. Better talk to him about that........
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