i'd gently break the news to her...take her for a chill-out session (conducive place a MUST!) and chat for a bit..slowly then break the news to her. That's what friends are for....'through good and bad times'.
On the other hand if I think it is not neccessary for her to know then I wouldn't bother to bring it up..
hmmm...interesting post Lara ! thought-provoking...i believe close friends have an everlasting bond whether or not we meet during the course of time...when we do meet, our bond remains...whereas for good friends, we hang out, do stuff..chill..yet the bond has not been established yet like i have with my close friends..
Funny post lara! Hmm....brings back some fond and unforgettable first dates! For me first dates gotta be spontaneous, unplanned..cut the chase and give me a surprise! Well...to begin with Im pretty selective with whom I date -- so far I have had good and fun first dates! I remember a young french bloke took me out to a pretty nice restaurant...guess what?! We went DUTCH! I was like..."wtf?!" I had minor tantrums post dinner, he got the message thereafter....In the nutshell, I guess it all depends on the individual and I realise that my expectations of a first date differ in every decade of my life...key principles stay though : 1. cut the chase... 2. splash sparingly at a cool cafe...where we can be ourselves 3. let's get on with it on the 3rd date! <<<<<smirk!>>>>> LOL!
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on To Tell or NOT to tell?
i'd gently break the news to her...take her for a chill-out session (conducive place a MUST!) and chat for a bit..slowly then break the news to her. That's what friends are for....'through good and bad times'.
On the other hand if I think it is not neccessary for her to know then I wouldn't bother to bring it up..
rawk on!