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Part 3 is a easy one, Communication is one of the most important things in any relationship, But in a LDR you need to really go the extra mile,

Me and my fiancee have found many ways to talk to each other, Since we have been together a day has not gone by that we have talked, In this day and age there are so many ways to do it.

We mostly use yahoo messenger and our facebook acts to talk, we have also used our cell phones to talk also, at first we would talk on the phone daily but it cost to much so we save those days are for special occasions,

There is also skype we have not really tried it but have heard positive results about it, There is also e-mail, I send my honey at least one e-mail a day if anything to tell her how my day was or going.

If you plan on having a LDR you have to talk everyday, Its a must if you have any chance of it to survive, plus you will learn real fast if she is into you or not, And you will learn more about each other as the days pass.

So talk and talk till your hearts content
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This is part two of my long running series on how to survive a long distance relationship.

The next rule of thumb is to have a lot patience, It goes hand in hand with trust, If your not patient it will never work for you,

I got very lucky to have met and fell in love with the lady i am with now, She has been very patient with me with all my fears and insecurities, As i have tried to be patient with hers, We both have the same fears so its easy for us to put that fire out,

Take the story i told you about in part one, I got frustrated and irritated, Lost my patience so to speak, She reassured me about everything and put my mind to rest, A lot of people would have just given up on the whole thing but our love and respect for one another coupled with trust and patience, proves it will last forever.

So just be patient in your search for true love like us, And you all will find it to
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My first post will be about trust, Its important in any relationship to build the trust between the two of you.

First let me tell you some about my relationship with my lovely fiance from the Philippines, She is the most intelligent and beautiful woman i know, It took me forever to build the trust with her, But today i know she trusts me and i trust her,

Let me tell a story she told me the other day, She went to visit her family in the province, It took her about five hours to get there, She spent three nights with them,Her trip home took over twenty four hours,

We are texting back and forth while this is going on, She is telling me she was in a van on her way to the terminal, Well that took almost five hours in itself LOL, Then she finally gets there and the boat is all booked up, Then she tells me she met a nun in the van and she is going to spend the night with the good sister at a pension house, Well i knew nothing about the pension house because her phone went dead LOL,

All i text her was interesting story, Then her phone started to work again LOL,
She was coming at me with why would i tell you what i am doing, and then she brought up trust, And i was like hmmmmm interesting, I never thought she was cheating or anything till she brought it up.

Now do i believe her story? ohhhhhh hell no, Do i trust her? Yes very much. She was most likely with her friends and did not want to tell me LOL

Please post your comments and tell me if you believe her story.
Her story is so out there that maybe its true LOL,
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