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Felix

Melbourne, Victoria, AUSTRALIA


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to be loving

August 17th 2006 23:10
hello again!
i have been away but now am back
sorry for any bleep in the system

mmmm...love. what shall i say today?
how can one be loving?
how can we have the capacity to love?

one way of looking at love is to ask:
how do we love?
what is involved ?

it has been said that to experience love is to give to another...give what? material goods? time? services? sex? children? a house to live in?

one way of looking at love is what is given in love is that which is beyond the material...
we can all give material things to another for sure...no, love asks more that the giving of things..in love we give respect, care, responsibility...as an ethical act that underlies all else...love is a way of being-in-the-world

it is an attitude that assumes a ;'us-ness' in the very foundation of our conduct...that we are in it together..that we are made of the same stuff

we cannot assume we know for sure what the other is, needs or wants for we know our own changeable nature and whims..we are a work in progress...but in loving relation, in a state of givingness of us as human beings ... we respect, honour and give space to the other as we do so for ourselves...as an act of loving responsibility...

in this place of givingness we experience the richness of a being-in-love

see you next time!
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return of the repressed

August 17th 2006 22:50
greetings faithful readers and fellow psychonauts...i have been away for a while but am back now!
i do apologise for any bleep in the system

what keeps coming back for us? for you? for me?
why do we circle around, repeating the same old stuff?

hopefully time will tell us that each repeat we get a new look into an old paradigm...in the psychoanalytic clinic we get a chance to see a glimpse beneath the social constructs that drive our passions and our wallets...as desire circulates one more time, like a revolving door harboured in the one analyltic relationship...it deconstructs ..a fragment here and there falls off through becoming meaningless and irrelevent...and something is revealed!! something new emerges! could it be life at its most fundamental, stripped of all its lifeless shackles?

this is an exciting discovery!
rather than sort things out through successive relationships..the revolving door of the analysts clinic becomes an evolving matrix of desires, utterences, silence and urgent proclamations...

but mind you..this is not a one way door..psychoanalysis cuts both ways!
the silent other is but a mask for another...who chooses to remain silent, but all the while is cut, drawn and quartered like any other

both are in play, both are involved, and both feel pain...sounds familiar?

see you next time!
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who speaks of love?

July 28th 2006 11:15
many years ago....one came to speak of love.
but he was not understood

how can one speak of love to be understood?
is this possible?

words of love are words, until they are taken deep within to touch a place that has known love..the heart

if we have hearts that feel, we can receive words of love..and be edified ...but if we have hearts that are hard...that have not known love and not know how to give love..then words can drop like heavy stones and fall away

when we speak of love, we speak our truth through words, we speak of a love that abides as a deep spring of truth...and language allows us to communicate this truth as a missive to the other...a connection of love through words

how can we hear love if we have not known love?
to know love to become loving...to oneself, to ones world, to others...it is a way of being...and a choice...to love is not a given..
... it is a way
for we all have the capacity to love as we were first loved right from the beginning!

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who speaks of love?

July 28th 2006 11:15
many years ago....one came to speak of love.
but he was not understood

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getting ready to go out

July 28th 2006 10:27
i know this is a dating advice column..i will do my best...

you know...if you have not been out with the particular person in question...how does one prepare for such an adventure into the unknown


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silent scream

July 28th 2006 10:07
melbourne is a mecca when it come to psychoanalytic events..this weekend alone there is a lacan conference, a lacan public lecture, two film offerings as part of the international film festival, a book launch, a reading group ...just to name a few events!

is this good thing


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being ourself continued....

July 23rd 2006 23:13
I realise of course this dating site will not be the same as before, but I can only do what I can do...so I will write as I can on dating advice and welcome your comments!

last time I wrote about being yourself.....today I want to continue this theme...and we will see were we go


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Love never gives up

July 23rd 2006 23:00
Today I will write on the infinity of love.

I welcome your comments on these words. You may agree or disagree or want to correct my mistake


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Psychoanalysis. It isn't like that!

July 23rd 2006 22:43
.....and since it isn't, then I really have a choice here...to speak or not to speak.

This of course is the article of resistance circulating again and again in the analytic space...what will I say? what will be said and why now? why at all


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Psychoanalysis. It isn't like that!

July 23rd 2006 22:43
.....and since it isn't, then I really have a choice here...to speak or not to speak.

This of course is the article of resistance circulating again and again in the analytic space...what will I say? what will be said and why now? why at all


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