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I hope the PC (politically correct) crowd won't crucify me if I use the word cripple, or perhaps I could fall back to "the walking wounded." I can display wicked bites of humor. Usually it's among long-time friends, and rarely have I let the ironically funny thoughts that come to me about disability make it into public forums, or print. I have a skewed sense of propriety...I know it. By covering up that part of myself on most occasions, however, some may find me too quiet, humorless, even sullen. Clearly I'm not authentic in those occasions that I'm publicly divided on whether to blurt something out.

John Callahan, American Cartoonist, recently passed away. And while I'm sure he lived about as authentically humor-filled as few get a chance to, I wonder how long it took him to develop the confidence to be the blatantly offensive humorist I'm sure he was meant to be? Other folks had to have a load of confidence to print his cartoons. He got his publishing break within the pages of an Oregon newspaper.

So, beyond my concern for how to best title this post, I came here with a different purpose in mind. I wanted to chew on the idea that I may be formulating a new avenue of work. Communication has been a driving interest of mine. It hasn't always been my top talent in every career move. It's been two decades since I completed a Bachelor's degree. In the just this past decade however, regardless of the advances in technology, and instead at a personal level, my interpersonal communication has greatly developed beyond what it was in the first decade since finishing college. I am much more interested in what other people communicate with each other, and their motivations. I don't know if this is commonly surprising or not -- but, college had me rather focused on what I could tell the world, not what the world could tell me.

As the health care policies of the United States begin to change in 2011, the greatest benefits of the changes go to those who actively seek out preventive care. Problem with that is, I do not think many Americans are trained to interact with the medical profession that way. Just the opposite. So many, myself a prime example, avoid the doctor. My usual thought process takes into account whether I can effectively communicate my symptoms to a medical professional. If I don't understand what's impacting my body, I don't have the greatest level of confidence in success before the doctors and nurses. So, what I'm really avoiding is the futility of handing over $20 and failing to perform correctly. The system, in the past, rewarded uncertainty. You pay the $20 or more co-pay over and over again until the cause is determined and then the medicine payments begin. No wonder Americans avoid going to the doctor for preventative care!

How will we break ourselves out of this cycle? I'd like to think there's an opportunity for a person to communicate to others -- especially the most stubborn of us -- how to take care.
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“...it is only too obvious that we can withhold ourselves, our wills and hearts, from God...”
C.S. Lewis' Four Loves [1960]
I ask: What do any of us earn by refusing to gift back God's interest? With the gift of creativity that I enjoy in both my stillness and activity everyday, I am reaching out for that ideal opportunity to use it. Beyond my skills, which one sees in any format of resume, I first need to ask how my heart craves to express through Publishing. The most recent education I have completed is already a year in the past. I have only just begun my professional path as a practitioner of Science of Mind. I have some important intentions as a Licensed Religious Science Practitioner, much of it still focused personally. I want to expand my personal awareness of how we all get along – what do we communicate or hold back from communicating to
each other as we focus on practicing spiritual principle? Integrating Science of Mind philosophy fully into my
life has naturally impacted my family, as well as the work I do in the world. I will focus more time on how we
communicate as a family, and what our choices communicate at a spiritual level. Essentially I want to drop old
ways of being – move away from any uptight, worried parenting model – since I don’t recognize it as being in-
line with who I really am. I believe we can ease the tensions that some say are “normal” in a family. We do this
in order to have each be confident putting ideas forward, then we can enjoy each other more, and plan more
together. And it can happen this way within the more diverse family we accept at work, or in a community.
C.S. Lewis' recognition of a love that is given back to God is the Gift-love. It is available in every area of my
life. I stop holding back as I remember to take interest in all facets of my life, and as I take interest in the life of
God that I see in you.
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Where Reality Is Dead

August 31st 2010 07:13
BlogHer is a surprising way to view, as a collection, blogs from a female perspective. I suspect that it draws heavily on female audience. I don't know that it makes much difference (except in advertising and marketing), yet I do wonder if the topics become self-limiting. The categories of topics showed a huge balloon of family/motherhood bloggers, trailing down to count 'em on your fingers numbers on the topic of cars.

I read a very detailed article there today on an issue I had not heard local news reports on. Mainstream media often has a global perspective, yet seems the majority of its critics are local. On the BlogHer site it was interesting to see dozens of comments, almost exclusively women, arguing the verities of boycott as an effective political response.

There is no restriction in contests against male bloggers, by the way. But, even so, it will be interesting to research more, plus question whether compassion is discussed to a greater level based on the numbers of one sex over another paying attention to this site.

My concern today is to touch upon housing; how people continue to afford their homes or rentals. This is a common experience now in America, I am not addressing the more widespread Third World experience (that question for another time). It seems that the economic troubles of the world force errors in judgment by those with power and land. Governments face raising the property taxes to make up revenue. Landlords pass this on to the renter. And no increase in pay for two years' time for many workers impact the affordability question. What happens to the person trying to maintain a roof over their family's head, who suddenly loses a job? Is their a greater stretch that humanity can make in compassion...it is not just a governmental issue, each person may need to change, in order to change the global heart.
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Altruism Study

August 26th 2010 19:34
This week, my spouse skimmed an article which came to an interesting conclusion, and I was asked what I thought about it. A British study suggested that altruistic people are actually crazy. This means some set of medical professionals somewhere is probably considering fixing this social aberration.

It isn't Orwell's 1984, but it is scary. Selfishness is sane


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Distractability, part of the plan?

August 20th 2010 06:56
When I think about whether there is a grand design...if matters of the Universe are divinely predetermined...I get, well, a bit confused trying to make any logical sense of it.

I've heard more than one sermon explain that God wants us to have choice and the free will to learn from our own mistakes. So, does that speak to you of fate or Karma, or an already thought-out plan. It doesn't seem that way to me. But then I don't expect that I am enlightened enough to really get hoe God may think. Living with my spouse alone has taught me that there are different thought structures, person-to-person. What I really worry about is when any of us go "mindless


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Consciously Choose Your Food

August 18th 2010 06:15
Here's some insight into me. My concern for my family's health sometimes comes out poorly. I can be a nag. I can focus on the problem, or my worries about all the worst scenarios. Intellectually, I know that the people around me, whom I care for, are also thinking individuals. Sometimes I just get caught up in believing I have to do the thinking, the planning, the concluding for them.

I'd like to be an example to those I love. And, I'd like to think that consciously that is not such a deep insight -- that you too would much rather be an example than a nag


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Within You

August 16th 2010 07:12
Marianne Williamson delivered to the Agape International Spiritual Center audience today, with candor in recognizing human imperfection in the illusory realm of "the world" and chiding those who cope by denying any power over the world's ills. She also constantly returned to using the deep conviction of her biblical knowledge with a dynamic model -- that the Holy Spirit, just as it worked with Jesus through his enlightened belief, travels at each of our sides -- presently awaiting our own command to have the power of God work through each of us.

The hardest lesson to hear, even for the student of metaphysics, is that the world conditions have no power over any of us, yet our senses respond completely to these illusions like absolute truth and involve sensations of pain, guilt, regret; which we easily become focused upon. One major component of her message was to remind practitioners of love and healing to remember daily prayer, without influence first from the cares of the world


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Natural Attraction

August 15th 2010 07:27
Marianne Williamson is a New York Times Bestseller List Author whom I've admired and identified with for about the last thirty years. She ministers both from a Jewish heritage and a Unity Church training, and has successfully become internationally known for her causes and statements. Today, I will go to hear her speak live. Geographically, her orbit is astronomically close to my own areas of growing up. Ideologically, I understand that some find her radical. My own baby-sized thoughts on how to change the world come, maybe, from a similar innocence and trust that I believe she and I both have at our cores.

I was weeding a small flower bed Saturday morning and activity freed up my thinking. I started correlating the weeding and digging up of this plot, intending to start over, as a model for scraping a bureaucracy and re-seeding with a whole new idea.I think that's the same kind of insight that must have gotten Marianne Williamson to start Project Angel Food, or support the legislation for the institution of an United States Government Department of Peace. The reversal in thinking to save restaurant food that would normally be thrown out gave Project Angel Food flight -- that's a change already in place to help those with AIDS. The Department of Peace -- not yet, but who knows? And yet, won't it be something to pass on to our children


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The Keeping Up Pace

August 14th 2010 08:52
Could putting some shrimp on the barbie, joined with twenty minutes of meditation, and a quick skim of the Kama Sutra be the formula for an enlightened day? No, I think. It's more like a recipe for overly charbroiled shellfish due to inattention. Rarely do my days play out like an eighties sitcom or premiere Hollywood movie, but I still admit to enjoying a healthy diet of TV and movies, both new and old.

"Eat, Pray, Love" is now in American movie theaters, being touted as making audience members voyeurs into one woman's journey of self-discovery. And what really could this accomplish? Do we not already get enough fulfillment from "Keeping Up with the Kardashians?" Or over a season of "Jersey Shore?" This, I think, would be called: "other-discovery." And now that self-discovery feel-good is being optioned to the big screen, the question is: have we allowed Hollywood to spoon-feed personal development to us all too


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