SchublerChaos or Paradise???
Welcome everybody
The idea of writing you guys came to me yesterday after talking with an old friend of mine which i haven`t saw in years... He called me, yesterday saying he wants to talk to me because he is feeling very bad about his life!!!
We met and we talked and I was stuned by the person I saw it was standing in front of me!!! Don`t get me wrong, this guy has everything materially: money, cars, houses... but he is so miserable like you won`t believe someone could be... I never saw someone suffering so bad because of his life... which is not a life to be miserable about at all... but it happens to the majority of us... and this is one of the things that separates WINNERS from LOSERS!!!
Everybody has things he likes about his life and things he doesn`t like... I usually say that everyone`s life is divided in two: His/her`s Chaos and his/her`s Paradise... those two will always stay in balance because that`s how life is... Full of Ups and Downs!!!
My friend is a perfect example of a Chaos Driven Life... he has everything he would need but he doesn`t enjoy those anymore... and that`s because he concentrates only on material things...
Material things will always bring monotony... everytime you achieve something you want more... and when you get everything you want and can`t find anything else to want anymore, you come close to missing your real purpose in life! Monotony can lead to boredom... and boredom can be depresing and can bring you to the point were you forget your Paradise and see only your Chaos. This is something that comes only from the way you look at your life. It comes from what you see: the good or the bad!!! Everybody has both but the only thing that separates us is what we see most of the time: our Chaos or our Paradise!!!
Poor people will always see their Chaos... and the poor one`s that refuse letting their Chaos lead their life, always have had amazing achievements!!! Never believe someone who tells you that money brings happiness, because it`s not true!!! Only the poor will say this and never the rich.The poor will say this as they never had money and the idea is: How can you talk about something that you don`t know anything about and never had??? You never been rich but you give advice about becoming rich and why should I trust or even listen to you if you never been there??? Always listen and value an advice about something you want to become only if that advice comes from someone who had already done that and only if that person has a real interest in bringing you there!!!
Wealth has never been only about money!!! Wealth is very complex and it`s about how wealthy you as a person are on the inside: Spiritually, Psychologically and Socially and the 4th will come by itself ... and the 4th is money!!! Grow your wealth first in the first three sectors and let the 4th make room in your life by itself!! To say it more simple: You first must KNOW HOW... and then you`ll get it!!!
The idea of writing you guys came to me yesterday after talking with an old friend of mine which i haven`t saw in years... He called me, yesterday saying he wants to talk to me because he is feeling very bad about his life!!!
We met and we talked and I was stuned by the person I saw it was standing in front of me!!! Don`t get me wrong, this guy has everything materially: money, cars, houses... but he is so miserable like you won`t believe someone could be... I never saw someone suffering so bad because of his life... which is not a life to be miserable about at all... but it happens to the majority of us... and this is one of the things that separates WINNERS from LOSERS!!!
Everybody has things he likes about his life and things he doesn`t like... I usually say that everyone`s life is divided in two: His/her`s Chaos and his/her`s Paradise... those two will always stay in balance because that`s how life is... Full of Ups and Downs!!!
My friend is a perfect example of a Chaos Driven Life... he has everything he would need but he doesn`t enjoy those anymore... and that`s because he concentrates only on material things...
Material things will always bring monotony... everytime you achieve something you want more... and when you get everything you want and can`t find anything else to want anymore, you come close to missing your real purpose in life! Monotony can lead to boredom... and boredom can be depresing and can bring you to the point were you forget your Paradise and see only your Chaos. This is something that comes only from the way you look at your life. It comes from what you see: the good or the bad!!! Everybody has both but the only thing that separates us is what we see most of the time: our Chaos or our Paradise!!!
Poor people will always see their Chaos... and the poor one`s that refuse letting their Chaos lead their life, always have had amazing achievements!!! Never believe someone who tells you that money brings happiness, because it`s not true!!! Only the poor will say this and never the rich.The poor will say this as they never had money and the idea is: How can you talk about something that you don`t know anything about and never had??? You never been rich but you give advice about becoming rich and why should I trust or even listen to you if you never been there??? Always listen and value an advice about something you want to become only if that advice comes from someone who had already done that and only if that person has a real interest in bringing you there!!!
Wealth has never been only about money!!! Wealth is very complex and it`s about how wealthy you as a person are on the inside: Spiritually, Psychologically and Socially and the 4th will come by itself ... and the 4th is money!!! Grow your wealth first in the first three sectors and let the 4th make room in your life by itself!! To say it more simple: You first must KNOW HOW... and then you`ll get it!!!
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Another great post Schubler...
Lilla...