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If you miss your ex-girlfriend and want to get back together, try these tried-and-true tips:
1. Stop communicating entirely directly following the breakup. Fair warning: This is going to be difficult! Just keep in mind that it is only temporary and is a surefire way to get her back in your arms as soon as possible. Remember, if she doesn't see or hear from you after a breakup, in time she'll begin to regret the decision and think about you non-stop. She'll realize how much she misses you, but this only works if you cut off all communication immediately.

2. During the time period in which you cut off communication with your ex, allow yourself to heal emotionally. Breaking up can do a lot of damage, so it makes sense to recover a little before making an attempt to delve back into the relationship. If you don't calm down before reinitiating communication, it will be even more difficult to repair the broken bond. No one likes a needy or desperate person -- it's worthwhile to settle down before getting in touch again.

3. After recovering emotionally, go out and have fun. Talk to other girls to boost your own confidence and charisma, but also to let your ex-girlfriend know you are still desirable to other people. If she knows you're turning heads at bars or out on the dance floor, you'll become irresistible to her once again.

4. Pretend everything is fine and you aren't bothered by the breakup at all. If you mope around acting depressed all the time, there's no way she'll want you back. Make an effort to laugh a lot and have tons of fun with your friends and family. This will be hard to do, as it is easy to fall into a depression after a breakup, but it works.

5. Work on your appearance. Keep your skin clean and clear, and try to dress well. Go to the gym and workout to improve your physical assets. Once she notices you have a lot to offer, your ex will regret the decision to break up and come running back. Working out also has the added benefit of boosting your self-esteem through natural means. You'll feel better overall and this will translate to other areas of your life in tangible ways.
If you follow all of the above steps to get your ex girlfriend back, she won't be able to resist you.
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Can Friendship Turn To Romance?

June 14th 2009 08:42
It is important to be really systematic for turning friendship into romance. Friendship and romance are inseparable in many cases, but it is not universally true for all. Many people are enjoying their romantic life that they started with friendship a long back. On the other hand, the diametrically opposite situation may happen to your life also…you can lose your intimate friend in the mire of romance. It is the mystery of psychology that propels human beings to behave like this. But, we should always follow what our mind directs us to do. If you feel to make a romantic relationship with your friend, do not hesitate to march forward until you get him/her.

Just think of the situation – you have a friend, who understands you well, who knows you and would stand beside you in all situations; he/she is certainly the perfect match for your romantic life. The most important thing is that your have to be pragmatic enough to make her/him understand the situation, otherwise everything will be lost in the wave of time.

Romancing close friends can be risky – they may take the relationship as granted at the beginning…and you may have to face a false situation. If you are honest about your aims and objectives, do not hesitate! You know her well right from her earlier days and vice versa…and it is assumed that the relationship that exists between you can never be altered even if the sky comes down to the earth. A true friend can bring success, happiness and all the treasures in life. Honesty will pay for you and if you are honest to bring your relationship to romance, none has the power to stop that.

Most of the people assume lot of things at the beginning of any friendship. They start daydreaming and finish as a loser. It should be kept in mind that mere assuming would not pay you until you have an utmost desire to fulfill your demand. If you are too crazy to make a romantic relationship with your close friend…take time and wait for the perfect time to tell her. You would have to change certain things of you. Your lip service can play a big role to canalize your friendship to romance. Tell expressively and persuasively that you love her from your heart. If she does not want to change the equation of the relationship immediately, do not be worried; keep on persuading her and you would get the result in no time. In such cases faith and honesty work a lot.

It is necessary to bring certain changes within you; otherwise it would be too tough for you to transfer your relationship from friendship to romance. First of all, get a different look – always dress elegantly and spray perfume frequently, so that she can observe some changes in you. Be realistic and create an opportunity for her to come closure to you. Suppose, both of you are in a stroll, what you need to do is that place your palm near her waist and smoothly start rubbing until she gets aroused sexually. Wait for the perfect time - hold her hand and kiss. If she agrees with your gesture, carry on kissing in different places including lip, breast and more. Try to be direct with her and make no hesitation in asking for dating. Say, whatever you have at the earliest, because nobody knows what may happen in the days to come. Still, you need to be practical enough to judge the perfect time and place and of course, of the mental state of your beloved. Be true to your heart and do not fear from rejection. Keep a positive outlook and you can earn your desired soul by applying the tried and tested law.

Once she shows any positive sign of continuing romance, try to make it doubly sure by giving her romantic gifts and sumptuous treats at renowned restaurants. Whenever you get spare time, go to your nearby park or at the riverside. Speak in romantic tone and pick out some happy memories of the past. It will simply create magic for you. Make scope for her to vent out her emotional stories of her life. Sit closer to her and continue rubbing her body, so that she can feel good. Look for the opportunity to stimulate her physically as well as emotionally… if you can do so, you are rest assured of winning half the battle. She is not expected to tell about this incident to anyone; it is because of two separate reasons. Firstly, she would not like to create any gossip amongst her friends and secondly, she would not like to debar her from getting sexual pleasure.

So, be free from hesitation and enjoy the ultimate friendship through making love. Always remember the proverb – "Marriages are made in heaven" and if it is true, you do not need to bother about the consequences. Go and tell your friend!!! She would definitely reciprocate your feelings. It is quite possible that she is also making her mind for you.
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Anytime you break up with your true love, you usually go through a lot of painful emotions. You feel upset, depressed and hurt, and you really miss them. "What should I do to get my ex back?" becomes a question you will constantly ask yourself.

If you're preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering "what should I do to get my ex back?" then you need to follow this simple advice. By doing this, you will give yourself the best option for getting back with your true love.

First off, do not play games with your ex. This is a very important rule, but unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power. Many times if you feel that you can make your ex believe that you are really upset, or make them believe that you really do not care at all, this is manipulation. It might feel good to have that power at that time, but in the long run, you are really hurting what we are working so hard to fix.

All too often, people will act like they are dating someone new to try and make their ex jealous. Once again this is manipulation. Even if you feel good at the time being, more often than not, this is going to backfire and you may end up losing your ex forever. Once again, very counterproductive.

Avoid saying things that you do not mean. Unfortunately, this happens in any situation or any relationship, but sometimes the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we normally might. Even if you're hurt, you probably are asking yourself, 'What should I do to get my ex back?" This shows that you're ready to forgive that person. If you were not, you probably would not want your ex back, and you'd be glad it was over.

Now, think about how you've been acting. If you were your ex, would you look forward to spending time with you or talking to you? Or would you dread each time that you came around? You are going to be mad, you are going to be hurt, and you are going to want to argue. Do not let this happen! You need to work really hard at controlling all of your negative emotions and focus on being a person that they will miss.

"What should I do to get my ex back?" Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them to you in the first place. Force them to remember your good points. Then you'll have a better chance of being able to get back together with your ex.

When you lose your true love, it is not going to be an easy road to get them back. It is going to take time and well thought out planning and implementation. This is a good starting point. If you can focus on this information, you will be well on your way to get your ex back.
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