Avoid Love Triangles
January 31st 2012 18:39
Avoid love triangles at all costs. This is one of the biggest mistakes that people make in dating and relationships. Whether you are single and want to date someone already in a relationship or in a relationship and want to see someone else the best thing to do is not make it a triangle.
Let's start with being single.
If you are single the best thing to do is not become involved with someone in a relationship. And a relationship is anything where one person is with another. If the person that you are interested in is seeing someone else, even as friends, don't try to come between them. Let them be and find someone else. Or wait for the relationship to run its course then try to form one of your own.
Seeing anyone who is married is a no no. Even if they are separated. First, the person who is married should not be stepping outside of the relationship. Second, you are wrong for going out with someone who is married. Third if the married couple is going through problems you being in the picture will only make things worse for everyone.
Now let's get to being married.
If you are married going outside of the relationship is not right. No matter the reason. If you love your spouse then there is no excuse. If you don't, then end the relationship first. Get a divorce then look for someone new. Even if your spouse goes outside of the relationship this does not give you a reason to do the same.
If you know before you get married that you're going to stray then don't get married. If you know your spouse will then don't get married. You're not ready. When you marry someone it is because you love them body and soul. Nothing should jeopardize that.
Reality is not the movies where we see love triangles all of the time. When the movie ends so does the role of the actors and everyone goes home.
In real life the movie never ends and someone gets hurt for life.
Avoid love triangles at all costs.
Let's start with being single.
If you are single the best thing to do is not become involved with someone in a relationship. And a relationship is anything where one person is with another. If the person that you are interested in is seeing someone else, even as friends, don't try to come between them. Let them be and find someone else. Or wait for the relationship to run its course then try to form one of your own.
Seeing anyone who is married is a no no. Even if they are separated. First, the person who is married should not be stepping outside of the relationship. Second, you are wrong for going out with someone who is married. Third if the married couple is going through problems you being in the picture will only make things worse for everyone.
Now let's get to being married.
If you are married going outside of the relationship is not right. No matter the reason. If you love your spouse then there is no excuse. If you don't, then end the relationship first. Get a divorce then look for someone new. Even if your spouse goes outside of the relationship this does not give you a reason to do the same.
If you know before you get married that you're going to stray then don't get married. If you know your spouse will then don't get married. You're not ready. When you marry someone it is because you love them body and soul. Nothing should jeopardize that.
Reality is not the movies where we see love triangles all of the time. When the movie ends so does the role of the actors and everyone goes home.
In real life the movie never ends and someone gets hurt for life.
Avoid love triangles at all costs.
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